Have you ever fallen in love with someone you haven't met?

[D-Base]

No, I'm serious!

I have! For a long time I was in love with this guy, a local soccer player who I'd only see on pictures or interviews. I fell in love for someone I haven't met in person. I know some would say it was just an infatuation but it wasn't. I had deep feelings for someone I haven't even talked to, someone that didn't know I exist. I still do to some extent.

I think the reason behind was because he, unlike other soccer dudes I know is a genuinely sweet guy, really good soul, big heart, apart from being so cute and handsome he also is just a really good guy. I somehow knew all that even before I knew him. Fortunately I had the chance to get to know him in person and every single thing I was building in my mind for him was right.

And then of course I fell hopelessly for him, he was so good he even gave me his t-shirt as a gift. I have it here and everytime I see it I'd remember that day I met him.

NEway, just wanted to know if anyone else had a similar experience.

 

[Green_Man_007]

"In love" wouldn't be the term I'd use, but I have been overcome by a sudden, intense, bizarre attraction to someone without having met them.

Later on I'd get familiar with them, and find out that astrological harmonies between our planets (esp Venus and Mars) acted like a sort of "psychic pheromone." Then my fascination's origin became more rationally-explicable by science.

 

[pancake]

daniel craig

 

[KennyD]

I wouldn't call it "Love" ; BUT yes ..very strong and intense feelings for Scott Baio when he was younger ...

 

[BrandonSBCA]

Too many times.

 

[jwest]

i dont know if id call it love, but theres definetly something there...

 

[Christopher123]

I refuse to answer this question based on the grounds that it may incriminate me.

Kidding.

Yes, I've developed feelings for someone I've never met. But what's the point in dwelling over it if I know I'll never be able to truly express them?

 

[Joshua_me]

I've had a 'passing crush' on a couple of people right here on JUB
without ever meeting them.

But.

I wouldn't call it 'love'

It's just that a couple of guys here seem too good to be true, and it's hard
not to fantasize about them a bit.

Joshy

 

[Kurn]

Jake Gyllenhaal.

 

[Christopher123]

It's just that a couple of guys here seem too good to be true, and it's hard
not to fantasize about them a bit.

Joshy

Yeah. Very good way of putting it

 

[ozguy]

Yep ... quite a few Jubbers, actually .... but I'd call it lust rather than love!

 

[Nonimus]

In love - No. But I have experienced love at first sight on two occasions.

 

[trawler69]

In Love no, but I have developed strong attractions.

 

[Theyoungman]

Nope... Its a foolish move to make and its usually not love. Its lust and desire. Its not really logical or posible to fall in love with someone or something you've never met.

 

[Nonimus]

Nope... Its a foolish move to make and its usually not love. Its lust and desire. Its not really logical or posible to fall in love with someone or something you've never met.

It's more of a crush than anything I think. Mmmm Dicaprio...

 

[NickCole]

Yes.

Nope... Its a foolish move to make and its usually not love. Its lust and desire.

If by lust and desire you mean strictly sexual, falling in love is more than that. And I definitely have fallen in love with a few people I never met. Or is that a crush? I've never been certain the two aren't basically the same thing -- different mixtures of the same components.

Its not really logical or posible to fall in love with someone or something you've never met.

There's nothing logical about falling in love.

Where falling in love is concerned, anything is possible.

 

[tccia1]

Hmmm sounds like the ramblings of a stalker around here j/p
but on a more serious note in the past i've fallen head over heels for someone i didnt know, but im just a hopeless romantic.

 

[Theyoungman]

Yes.


If by lust and desire you mean strictly sexual, falling in love is more than that. And I definitely have fallen in love with a few people I never met. Or is that a crush? I've never been certain the two aren't basically the same thing -- different mixtures of the same components.

To answer your question... Its a crush. Thats far from love.

 

[sweet_taboo]

Yes......Vinnie72

 

[JakeLucas]

Have you ever fallen in love with someone you haven't met?

Good question!

hmmmm...

yes... (?)

I mean, no...

uh...

I don't know...

Maybe.

I met someone online and as I got to know him, I realized just how wonderful he is. I noticed right away that he is very friendly and that he's a very open, honest and genuine guy. I also realized that he is very sensitive, caring, kind, and he has a really big heart.

As I got to know him even better, I learned that he is extremely intelligent, and very talented in many ways. He is also very helpful and patient, hard-working and fun-loving, he has wisdom and common sense, he's sometimes serious and sometimes silly. I really, really admire him, respect him, and look up to him.

We have a lot in common, similar interests, we like the same music, etc.

I also found out that he is very good-looking... cute, handsome, and sexy... but that is just an "extra bonus" because I am really attracted to him for the person he is.

He is soooo special to me. I love him dearly. But the question is, am I in love with him?

I don't think so... but I do know I could be. Very easily.