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Have You Ever Had A Huge Turning Point In Your Life?

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Please share your biggest turning point in your life if you have one, not everyone does. We'd love to hear about it.

I haven't yet but I'm still young.
 
Moved to Chicago 5 months ago (today, actually). It stripped all familiarity and comfort from my life, and I'm so glad that I did it...
 
Yeah, it was when I sold my soul and everything that made me once I came out. Ditching all that was really what I was socially and only did gay things with my bf and partner.
He fucking died.
I am here still but all that was before him is lost, and those years I should have balanced and not disregarded my other interest which I am about. YOu can't rescale or grab years lost and sexual attraction isn't a calling card to forget the other things that make you special.
I mean if I was straight I wouldn't go to a country bar because straight people go. I would go if I liked the culture, life sytle, and music.
Why do only gay things even if you hate GA~GA and Madonna and drag queens? We should not fit into a box as a lump sum.

Some would call this bad as assimilation into mainstream society and I would say fuck you. I liked camping and holding frogs, and the next time I am stuck with a flaming queen from the Philippines going "eewwwh who would ever touch a lizard" I am going to puke and say why,...why did I ever leave what I had for some cock???
 
My parents divorce.

Going from grade school to Jr. High.

Going from Jr. High, to High School.

Mom re-marrying.

Graduating.

Being old enough to have to sign up for the draft.

Realizing college wasn't for me 1/2 through.

Getting engaged to my first GF.

Getting cheated on and Breaking up with my first Fiancee.

Meeting my second GF/Fiancee.

The MMF 3-somes we had.

Getting cheated on and Breaking up with my second fiancee.

Dis-owning my biological father. (It was mutual).

Realizing I'm gay.

Dealing with parents disapproval of me being gay.

Dis-owning the straight 'friends' who weren't really friends.

Every new job started, and laid off from (Several!).

Every long term M/M relationship started and ended (several).

Every unexpected close friend I've made (and some lost).

Every death in the family/friends funeral I've had to attend.



Life is all about those "turning points". Get used to them... expect them... They're coming for you.
 
Game of Thrones changed me. I have finally accepted that I am a fantasy/sci fi nerd.
 
I remember being at a crew party for this mini-series I was working on in LA and just realizing that I never wanted to live this lifestyle again. Quit the industry, moved back to Portland, and started a new path.
 
HBO and Showtime television... and online tv.... oh and less important.. moving to the ebig city ready to go to a really gay central school ryerson... then realizing it wasnt for me then taking a year off and going to a smaller school with its own community and loving it
 
I've had too many to count. The first was when I was about 2 1/2 and realized that my parents are fallible.
 
lets say a genetic illness that comes when your young. makes people kill themselves. probably how my life will end. spent months screaming and crying about it, months may turn into years then ill die. no future, no cure, just a lost soul clinging to humanity.

sometimes the deck is stacked against you and there's nothing you can do.

my life ended 7 months ago. when i see people all they are - are pages in a book to me.

how is that for a turning point?
 
When I came out. Having those chains lifted from my shoulders was an amazing relief.

When my dad died two years ago. Life is more precious than I felt it was before, and I suffer fools even less than I did before.
 
I got an illness 2 years ago which lasts all my life. It made me had to rearrange my plans and adopt a new way to cope with things in life. I don't like being entitled 'forever sick' but every cloud has a silver lining.

And when I was a part of a committee for a regional conference. I learn so much it changed a lot of my aspects and I was happy I was a part of the huge event.

But I believe there will be many instances in the future which will be an important cornerstone for me. Like what Borg said :)
 
Great life-(turn)-Serious illness-(turn)-Financially ruined-(turn)-Recovery-(turn).....will somebody get me off this merry-go-round, I'm bout to hurl!
 
Yes, a potentially serious health issue. Not all bad as I immediately (as in cold turkey) stopped drinking and went vegan and organic. A silver lining, if you will. Also was a wake-up call which made me realize I should probably reconnect with my brother, which I did.
 
Ram said:
Game of Thrones changed me. I have finally accepted that I am a fantasy/sci fi nerd.
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Your posts are hilarious. XD I haven't finished the book yet....
*shakes fist at school*
 
I have had two, but they are intertwined. The first was when I got hurt.
 
when i decided that it was time to follow the 12 steps of alcoholics anonymous.
 
Some years ago, I realized I was crap out of luck, and I just pretty much gave up on life...
 
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