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Have You Ever Had Sex with Someone You Knew Less than 30 minutes?

I think it was just once , but i have a very poor memory
 
No. Not a turn-on. I don't get it. I don't think it's a good way to get to know someone.
 
No, but I did have sex with some crazy chick in a cemetery late at night once. Only knew her for a few days and thought it would cure me of all those gay feelings I was having. It didn't! :##: What can I say, I was young and stupid!
 
I like LTR's and I like instant sex, what I don't especially like is one night stands, they're the worst of both worlds. You invest a whole night of your life getting to know somebody and then never see him again?
 
My first male encounter, I chatted with a guy on the net before we met. But when we first met, it was definitely under 1/2 an hour before I found myself naked and in his bed. That was the first and last experience like that for me. It scared the hell out of me. Oh, but that random hook up lasted three years.

Oh wait; do hand jobs count? Never mind. !oops!
 
Known a couple of people that have done that. Both of them have STD's now.
 
more times than i can remember. and would do it again in the right situation. men can't be sluts. that's a tag for women.
 
I'm just baffled, all these guys on JUB who are waiting for Mr. Right, how do you get your rocks off? Jerking to Internet porn? Isn't a warm human body a lot more fun? Especially if you don't even have to concern yourself with his (undoubtedly) neurotic personality.
 
A warm human body with a personality and a head on his shoulders and a future is more fun than jerking off, sure. But wouldnt any old warm body without anything else basically feel like a corpse that hasn't cooled down yet?
 
I love being in love, it's a great feeling. But in my experience it doesn't come along that often. And while I was waiting I enjoyed a lot of wonderful, passionate love-making with total strangers. Who all had personalities, heads, and futures, just ones I wasn't interested in (except I guess the heads).
 
^^^Everybody has their preferences and that's fine. But for me the total strangers part was kind of the whole point. That way I could project whatever fantasy I wanted on him. He's a lumberjack, he's a gangster, whatever. As soon as he opens his mouth the fantasy flies out the window and reality knocks on the door.
 
Huntneo(PT) said:
^ that's my basic opinion on the matter. ..| with less emphasis on the 'total strangers' bit. lol

People are different though. I guess some guys are just as fine 'waiting' and holding out until they meet someone they have deeper feelings for before having the secks.

Unfortunately, that can mean waiting a long time.
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I'd be one of those who is fine with waiting... because I'd want a meaningfull relationship for anything more than 'just friends'.
I just know I could fall in love with someone too easily...

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Since I've never messed around and ain't young, its already been a long time LOL . If its an even longer time then ok...and if that even longer time became never...um...well...I guess thats how it has to be :?
 
SonOfSlobone said:
I love being in love, it's a great feeling. But in my experience it doesn't come along that often. And while I was waiting I enjoyed a lot of wonderful, passionate love-making with total strangers. Who all had personalities, heads, and futures, just ones I wasn't interested in (except I guess the heads).
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Huntneo(PT) said:
^ that's my basic opinion on the matter. ..| with less emphasis on the 'total strangers' bit. lol

People are different though. I guess some guys are just as fine 'waiting' and holding out until they meet someone they have deeper feelings for before having the secks.

Unfortunately, that can mean waiting a long time.
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To sightly modify the quote of the divine comedienne, gone-too-early, Madeline Kahn (rip,) playing one of her most enduring roles; Mrs. White of Clue:

White: "[STRIKE]Husbands[/STRIKE] (Men) should be like Kleenex - soft, strong and disposable."

Though of course if you can't be a ruthless vixen a la Bette Davis or Joan Crawford, you can always go with the sage hippy wisdom of, "if you be with the one you love, brother...love the one you're with!"
 
Yes I have.. All those years ago when my former boyfriend broke up with me after being together for almost a year and a half, I was pretty low. When he then found a new guy after only 3 months, I was mad, hurt and didn't care about anything in the world. So I went out with friends and hooked up with guys that I met at the club. It's not something that I particularly proud of but it was my way of venting out I guess.. Still I felt really bad and gross when it was over. I've stopped with all that long ago..

Huntneo(PT) said:
I guess some guys are just as fine 'waiting' and holding out until they meet someone they have deeper feelings for before having the secks.

Unfortunately, that can mean waiting a long time.
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^^This is where I am in my life right now.. While I have an immensely long period of no sex, this is the path I have chosen. I really need to be comfortable with a man before I can have sex with him, so I'll wait 'till I find the right man. Even though it can be hard at times..
 
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