I do not have an "I am forcing myself to do it, kicking and screaming" hate for her. I've always had a consistent view about her, since her primary against Obama and even before that. I don't trust her. She has a disturbingly consistent history of being on the wrong side of issues, until it was popular, safe and vetted to switch to the right side. Because of this, I don't trust her to always do the right thing in any situation, or to have the right intention. I expect her to do the safe, the savvy, the calculated thing. She's done this her whole career. It's either this or she honestly didn't know better at all the times she voted the wrong way, in which case I have better judgment than her and I am only a progressive voter, not a Democratic candidate... so there's little excuse.
So, I don't "hate" her, but I don't think she's a leader in the idealist or visionary sense. I think she just knows the mechanics of the game, and that's it. I never expect her to shock us all with a progressive idea that goes against the current grain, and I don't expect her to do the right thing instead of the expedient thing.
We can question Obama's efficacy for a variety of reasons, not the least of which being the dedicated and coordinated effort to ensure he got as little done as humanly possible by the whole machinery of the right. But I never personally had strong misgivings about his actual intentions or what he would try to do in a given set of circumstances. With Hillary, I just wouldn't expect her to make an unpopular decision or move, ever, even if it was the right thing to do.
She's universes better than Trump, because "will ride on the safe wave of sane majority public opinion" is way better than "I'm fucking evil and I don't care who agrees with me, I'm going to do evil anyway." But I'm not excited, and never was, about her as a candidate, even before she was a candidate but everyone knew she intended to be.