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Have you ever nearly smacked someone by accident?

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Today someone appeared at my front door un-expectantly, the window in the door was up so there was just a screen between us, I turned around and there he was.
My reaction was to make a fist and draw back, then I caught myself and relaxed.

It was a guy handing out flyers, he saw that I was ready to punch him, I had to apologize.

What are your thoughts on this?, has this ever happened to you?
 
No, i'd just jump back, can't say i'd have made a fist at him out of instinct, perhaps all the guns over there make people more nervous/jumpy.
 
Cormac135 said:
No, i'd just jump back, can't say i'd have made a fist at him out of instinct, perhaps all the guns over there make people more nervous/jumpy.
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It's kind of embarrassing, I think it goes back to the days of my youth, I thought that I was over it since it hadn't happened in a few years.
 
Not smacked...but when the Jehovah's Witnesses showed up at my door...Mid 1980s...when they asked me if I had heard about farming in third world countries...I asked them if they heard about the joy of getting fucked hard in the ass......

I can't be certain..but I am pretty sure they would have rather I smacked them....:-<

...and then they came back..a different set of them..and then again...and again....so either I was a training house or they thought Satan was in me and they needed to save me.

I didn't ask the others if they knew the joy of anal sex...but I DID make a rule that for every piece of shit story they shared with me...it would be MY TURN to share whatever the fuck I wanted with them...

Fair is fair....and since they were knocking on MY door and I wasn't knocking on theirs...I was more than entitled to "share" whatever the fuck I wanted to....
 
I'm a pretty big metal head, and do enjoy the mosh pit on occasion. I've been laid on my back more times than I can count, had a shoe fly off a guy and hit me in the face, needless to say I've taken my share of hits and had some nasty bruises, but I'm pretty good about protecting my face.

About the only time I have really been extremely violent in the pit was at a Lamb of God show a few years ago. This one dude hit me in the face and gave me a black eye(found that out the next day). He was just swinging his fists everywhere, punched 3 or 4 other people without helping them up, just being a total ass. Pretty big dude as well probably 5'11-6' tall, muscular, 180-190lbs, not real huge, but somebody you wouldn't want to pick a fight with. I ran full speed across the pit, shoulder lowered, and fucking speared him right in the chest. Knocked his ass down hard, he actually slid across the floor. That was the only real time I acted out of real hatred and violence, just because that dude was being a total dick.
 
Fight or flight is an innate reaction to threat. However, we can condition ourselves in what we label as threat. To identify a stranger automatically as a threat is a conditioned thought. Most strangers are not threats. If you keep telling yourself that, your subconscious is likely to get the message and be less hostile over time.

In truth, our familiars do us more harm typically, and it is the rare exception when a stranger is the threat. If you were a convenience store clerk, I wouldn't give the same counsel.
 
eastofeden said:
Not smacked...but when the Jehovah's Witnesses showed up at my door...Mid 1980s...when they asked me if I had heard about farming in third world countries...I asked them if they heard about the joy of getting fucked hard in the ass......

I can't be certain..but I am pretty sure they would have rather I smacked them....:-<

...and then they came back..a different set of them..and then again...and again....so either I was a training house or they thought Satan was in me and they needed to save me.

I didn't ask the others if they knew the joy of anal sex...but I DID make a rule that for every piece of shit story they shared with me...it would be MY TURN to share whatever the fuck I wanted with them...

Fair is fair....and since they were knocking on MY door and I wasn't knocking on theirs...I was more than entitled to "share" whatever the fuck I wanted to....
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The last time J.W.s showed at my door I was in a goofy mood, I told them it was Ramadan and I could not touch anything unclean when they offered me something to read. The woman could hardly keep a straight face.
 
No... :lol:

I'm laughing because my core nature would not allow me to react with violence...

I know that I could NEVER win in a physical confrontation -- with ANYONE -- therefore, I do best with cerebral conflict...

Bring it back down from physical to mental -- converse -- work things out...

Well -- that is just how I am...

:):):)
 
I'm sure that if I lived in a trailer park I'd be jumpy as hell, too.

You can be offended all you like, but you have told us about some of your weird neighbours.
 
Oh God yes. With my...well, lets call them "spatial relations issues", you're in danger of accidentally getting smacked by the gargoyle if you're within twenty-five feet of me. Every single one of my bed partners has gotten an elbow in the eye, or a light kick in the rump as I change positions. I'd like to think I make up for it in other ways, though.

Lex
 
The only time I can remember is when I was a kid, just got out of a fight and someone then ran up behind me and grabbed me by my shoulder. I almost pulled a punch, but didn't. It was only a friend.

There was a time I wanted to hit someone for doing the same thing unexpectedly. I used to work at the mall, just got out of work and had my headphones on. There were always people with surveys with random bullshit. One time I was walking and I saw that one of them was motioning to me but I ignored them and continue to walk, then a few seconds later one of them pulled me by my shoulder from behind. I wanted to hit them but instead said to them "What the hell is your problem? Back the fuck off." And they did.
 
Kahaih said:
I'm sure that if I lived in a trailer park I'd be jumpy as hell, too.

You can be offended all you like, but you have told us about some of your weird neighbours.
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Why would I be offended? Yes, I have a few strange but harmless folks around me, but, after 5 years of living here I can say that everyone who lives in here that I have met is pretty nice. Some fat, some lazy, some moochers... actually just like folks that you might meet anywhere.

I can understand why you might be jumpy where ever you live.:D:gogirl::rotflmao:
 
The only time I can remember being in a (barely) similar situation ...

I was in high school, at a Summer Choir "Camp", staying in a college dorm.

Three of us were walking down the hall, going to dinner. Someone came up behind me, and put me in a half-nelson.

I pivoted to my right, ducking under his arm, and spun to put him in a half-nelson, but one much stronger than he'd put me in.

I had him bent over, saying "Ouch!", since I was using so much force. His right arm was straight up in the air, with my right hand cupping the back of his neck, and forcing his head down.

For a moment I was pretty pleased with my reaction, displaying a quick defensive move, that I made up on the spot.

The guy I had in a head lock screamed, "What the fuck are you doing?"

One of my two friends said, "It looks like he's already done what he wanted to!"

I was actually pretty stoked, having made an impression on my friends, and whoever it was that had accosted me.

Then I realized who I was holding, bent over ...

I was only 5'6", and that was if I was standing up to my fullest. Most other guys were taller than me.

There was this really cute blue-eyed blond, from a different school, who was the same size as me. I hadn't talked to him much, because every time I was near him "Animal" tended to get hard, and in those days, amongst a group of young dudes, that was a dangerous thing to have happen! Not something you wanted to be getting around! He was one of those guys I was SO attracted to, that I'd avoid him simply out of "self protection".

It was him that had come up behind me, and moving to put his arm around my shoulders, had gotten his arm snagged under my swinging one while I was walking! It was not his intention to "pin" me!

I was astonished that I'd ended up hurting the very guy I wanted so much to HUG (and do other things with/to)!

Yeah! I'd gained mucho Macho points, that I was sure would get spread around. However, I was also humiliated, and exceedingly disappointed, that I'd physically harmed on of the very guys I wanted to impress in Other ways!

Darned reflexes! #-o ](*,)
 
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