Have you ever quit?

[sixthson]

Never trust a man who says he doesn't enjoy the feeling of his own dick in his own hand.

 

[medic1]

Only in extenuating circumstances...

 

[Willie Boy]

Never trust a man who says he doesn't enjoy the feeling of his own dick in his own hand.

Never trust a man who doesn't understand the power of an expert tongue and a beautiful face.

 

[SaskGuy]

It's unfortunate that there are straight guys who have no choice but to quit, because their overbearing wives/girlfriends won't let them because they think it's cheating.
Once the rabid homophobia dies down in about 50+ years, we will have the long end of the stick!

 

[Willie Boy]

It's unfortunate that there are straight guys who have no choice but to quit, because their overbearing wives/girlfriends won't let them because they think it's cheating.
Once the rabid homophobia dies down in about 50+ years, we will have the long end of the stick!

So what, you would be perfectly fine if your boyfriend went off and spent hours a day alone, seeing to his own needs, rather than sharing that time with you so you both could benefit?

Whatever floats your boat.

 

[jdcnow]

Never trust a man who says he doesn't enjoy the feeling of his own dick in his own hand.

It's unfortunate that there are straight guys who have no choice but to quit, because their overbearing wives/girlfriends won't let them because they think it's cheating.
Once the rabid homophobia dies down in about 50+ years, we will have the long end of the stick!

Hear, hear!

 

[peeonme]

It's unfortunate that there are straight guys who have no choice but to quit, because their overbearing wives/girlfriends won't let them because they think it's cheating.
Once the rabid homophobia dies down in about 50+ years, we will have the long end of the stick!

My wife knew that I jacked off before we married, she was shocked that I still did it after we married. Some good counseling taught her that guys j/o, at least most do.
She lost interest in sex about 20 years ago. Masturbation is my outlet. In a lot of str8 relationships that I have heard of the female uses sex as a tool to manipulate and control her partner/spouse. Masturbation takes away some of the control in these cases aand the females hate it.
I have never been in a lt gay relationship, do partners "cut off" the other or hold back to try to control the other?

 

[medic1]

^We all deserve some "me" time, Both my fella and i will masturbate solo on occasion.

 

[sixthson]

^We all deserve some "me" time, Both my fella and i will masturbate solo on occasion.

Not only that, but don't most guys play with their own dicks during love making? I mean if he is doing something that feels great to me, it seems natural to stroke myself. It's a big turn-on to see his hand moving up and down his erection, too. It all depends on the position. If his dick is in my mouth, I like the feeling of his leg or some other body part rubbing on my cock, skin on skin. That's a form of self pleasure, isn't it?
Why would anyone see jerking off your partner as normal, but beating your own meat as pathetic?

I often wonder if heterosexual married/partnered men don't jack off more than gay guys. Guys sexuality is pretty much on the surface. We are ready for action with very little priming the pump. Women require something more and deal with entirely different hormones and pregnancies and menstruation issues, etc.

 

[peeonme]

Not only that, but don't most guys play with their own dicks during love making? I mean if he is doing something that feels great to me, it seems natural to stroke myself. It's a big turn-on to see his hand moving up and down his erection, too. It all depends on the position. If his dick is in my mouth, I like the feeling of his leg or some other body part rubbing on my cock, skin on skin. That's a form of self pleasure, isn't it?
Why would anyone see jerking off your partner as normal, but beating your own meat as pathetic?

I often wonder if heterosexual married/partnered men don't jack off more than gay guys. Guys sexuality is pretty much on the surface. We are ready for action with very little priming the pump. Women require something more and deal with entirely different hormones and pregnancies and menstruation issues, etc.

I worked for years around str8 guys who made jokes about not getting any, I think the humor was an attempt to ease the frustration.
In my marriage when I was young even though I knew deep inside that I was gay, I was still wanting sex with the wife about 5 times a week, if I was lucky I got it twice. Then there was the week where you didn't ask.

I finally quit asking after about 20 years, it was all to obvious if I was turned down and disappeared for a half hour or so as to what I was doing. Also as I got older it took more of what I really wanted to turn me on... this I could manufacture in my mind and then we got the internet.

After masturbating I have no hard feelings...