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Yes, I've been to numerous drag shows over the years. Many years ago the gay nightclubs would always stop the dance music to do their drag shows at midnight. In the last few years, I've even gone to MCC church drag show fundraisers.

Have you ever DONE drag?
 
No, but I think I'd make a good drag queen. Don't ask me why. :lol:

Have you ever been flashed?
 
Yes, on at least a couple of occasions. I was flashed once by an old black man in the waiting area of a community mental health center when I was a teen. Many years later I was flashed by this guy who had prevailed on me to give him a ride, when he pulled his dick out to take a piss, but I refused to look at him.

Have you ever had to pointed refuse somebody who wouldn't accept you turning them down for sex? Did you have to escalate or threaten the person if they didn't stop?
 
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Yes, I have. An older, married man befriended me during a particularly tough time in my life during my first year of college and after months of grooming me, he lured me to his home and came on to me. I was shocked since he was married and (I'd assumed straight), but politely turned him down. He wouldn't take no for an answer and forced himself on me, but thankfully I managed to fight him off and got the hell out of there. That wasn't the first time I'd almost been assaulted, but it was the last.

Have you ever been back to any of your old schools?
 
Yes. Kinda brought back a lot of memories. Thankfully, all good! Thank goodness for memories, huh?

Have you ever wished you could hook up with someone from your past?
 
A few former classmates in high school.

Have you ever immediately regretted a hook up?
 
There were a couple of occasions in my younger days. One time I listened to the part of my brain where all the "shoulds" and "oughts" are stored, and not the part that tells me what I really feel. Needless to say, I went home with someone who was "nice," but my cock refused to get hard the whole time. Thinking about it later, I realized that, had I listened to my real self, I really didn't care for the guy, either looks-wise or personality-wise. What I learned is. that you can't fool Mother Nature, and that matters of the heart and sexual desire are not "politically correct."

Have you ever slept with someone out of "sympathy sex," or because you pitied them or felt sorry for them?
 
No, but I wonder if I might have been willing to try, if it had been presented to me differently in my younger days.

Have you ever had a child or young person living with you for any length of time? I mean in a nonsexual way, just in case that needs to be made clear.
 
No, but I once babysat three kids under the age of 10. Bebe's Kids, that is. :scaredofthat:

Have you ever been celibate for more than a year?
 
Yes. I was celibate, not by choice, for several years until I could come out. I tricked around until I met my ex, with whom I stayed together with for 14 years. After that I was celibate for two years, and then dated casually for about 10 years. There were two or three times I was celibate in the last decade. I'm finding that I'd rather be alone than to date unsuitable partners just to say I'm circulating. I find that most guys just want me to be or do what they want, with no regard to my needs or desires. (Hello! There's a sentient human being here!). I can wait until the right person comes along.

Have you ever gone on a date with someone only because someone set you up or insisted you date them? How did it go?
 
Yes, a friend set me up on a blind date a few years ago and although it went well, we never went out again. Nice guy, but not my type.

Have you ever played matchmaker for your friends?
 
I thought I'd hold off answering for a day or so, in hopes that someone with a more interesting answer than me would take up this question. Oh well.

No, I don't recall ever playing matchmaker for my friends. The closest I may have gotten to it (it's been so long, my memory is hazy), is to perhaps answer questions a friend may have had about someone I knew, who they were interested in.

Have you ever caught yourself spontaneously singing a song in public with inappropriate lyrics, such as sexual lyrics, profanity, or perhaps lyrics from a female point of view?
 
Not that I can remember, but your question reminded me of this commercial from back in the day:


Have you ever wished to be somebody else? If so, who and why?
 
I can't recall wanting to be a specific person too much, but in my younger days, I often found myself wanting to be a rock star, or a singer-songwriter type person. I think I found the ecstasy of nailing an intense song appealing, as well as feeling attracted to the creative power of writing and performing songs. Now that I'm older, I realize that I just wasn't cut out for that type of world. I know I wouldn't have been able to handle all the rejection I'd have to go through to get started, and I'm sure being in that environment and situation would have destroyed me in no time.

Have you ever written bathroom graffiti on the walls? If so, what kind, and why did you stop, if indeed you have?
 
Now that I think of it, yes I have and I'm embarrassed to tell you the story. When I was around 16 I saw a picture of a cute boy in a magazine, he wore a t-shirt with Nobody knows I'm gay written on it. I liked it so much that I wrote that same line in the bathroom at my music school. That obviously reversed the meaning, as I was a closeted gay nerd and that's exactly what this meant. I didn't understand the irony back then :rotflmao:

Have you ever heard another guy jerking off in the next stall?
 
Jerking off, no. Number two, yes. :lol:

Have you ever had to cut off an immature and/or emotionally unstable friend?
 
Yes. About 10 years ago I had a good friend. He was initially friendly, but he turned out to be egotistical and manipulative (I never dated him or got romantically involved with him, thank God. I think even then something was telling me to watch out for this guy). To make a long story short, he precipitated a confrontation when I started to feel that I needed to stand up for myself. I decided that I needed to cut him out of my life and move on. It turns out that a lot of other people has trouble with this guy. P. S. He somehow became friends with my ex on Facebook, who he never met, because he lives in another city. I guess it wasn't hard to figure out. I'm sure he followed me on FB, and figured out who he was from his responses to my posts, etc. I became concerned enough that I PMed my ex to warn him about that guy. Turned out that my ex already had concerns about him. And another weird thing was, my ex asked me how my ex-friend knew his cousin on fb, when neither he nor I ever mentioned her to this guy.

Have you ever had to deal with a stalker or someone who refused to accept that it was over or that you weren't interested in them?
 
No and knock on wood I never do.

Have you ever accidentally or intentionally broken something costly?
 
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