Have you ever...

[rmcrae]

Never.

Have you ever made a fool of yourself for love?

 

[Araucaria]

Oh yes! I basically put my life on hold for over a year chasing after a boy once.

Have you ever reached a point where you were pursuing someone, or pursuing a goal, and you just stopped and said fuck it?

 

[PalacePaul]

Yes

Have you ever picked a hitchhiker?

 

[frankifab]

I can't drive a car , and If I could I would never pick up strangers

Have you ever used poppers ?

 

[rmcrae]

No and I'm quite ignorant about them since I initially thought they were illegal drugs.

Have you ever tried an illegal substance?

 

[Danb258]

Not to my knowledge

Have you ever been asked by a straight guy to give him head whilst he was stoned or drunk?

 

[PalacePaul]

No

Have you ever been asked whilst he was sober?

 

[Araucaria]

No.

Have you ever lost your cool and later regretted it?

 

[frankifab]

I was drunken once and a saleslady refused to sell me the hairdye shades I was asking ( I had gone one day before sober and she had made excuses the previous day )
So when I went drunken the following day ( at an early hour ) , she refused to sell me the dye shades I knew they had available ...I insulted her , fortunately nothing happened as an ex highschool classmate was there by casualty . Anyway , in the end the bitch sold me the dye tubes I needed ... I called her "you goddamn bitch " because that's what she was
...the previous day when I'd visite the shop sober she made up silly excuses not to sell me and since it was late ... I didn't insist , the following day ...I lost my cool as I was drunken ( I hadn't reacted that way before ) and I know it was wrong to insult her ...

Not to my knowledge

Have you ever been asked by a straight guy to give him head whilst he was stoned or drunk?

 

[Danb258]

Have you ever lost your cool and later regretted it?

Only once with a family member.

Have you ever been involved in an argument that ended up with sex?

 

[PalacePaul]

No

Have you ever had sex with your neighbor?

 

[frankifab]

Never . I don't have interesting male neighbors

Have you ever had sex in a whirlpool or jacuzzi ?

 

[LoveMyPeppermill]

Yes, although I -- we -- always have to get out and sit on the side at some point because it just gets too hot in the water once one gets aroused past a certain point.

And my first boyfriend was a neighbor -- he lived in the house next door to where I was living, both an unusual distance away from the university campus.

Have you ever had sex (not limited to fucking) in a steam room or sauna at the gym?

 

[rmcrae]

No, but it'd be an incentive to hit the gym.

Have you ever spent 48 hours or more inside your home? I'm talking pre-COVID/lockdown.

 

[LoveMyPeppermill]

No, but it'd be an incentive to hit the gym

Honestly, that was exactly it for me. For the first few years I went, getting to fool around in the steam room, or at least see other men naked, was the reward I gave myself for going to the gym and exercising.

Yes, I've spent 48 hours (but not much more) inside my home. I work at home, and if the weather is very cold or otherwise bad and I have enough supplies, I just won't go outside.

 

[Araucaria]

Yeah, there were a couple of times in the past, when I had the flu or a flu-like illness that I felt so sick that I laid in bed for days, getting up only for food, medicine, or the bathroom, after which I would go back to bed and sleep, waiting until I got better.

And yes, I had a neighbor from the next block seduce me. We fooled around a few times. I believe I've written about him before.

Have you ever had sex with someone that you met years later, that you two never had sex when you initially knew each other, or even considered it, like an old classmate or coworker?

 

[Danb258]

No

Have you ever had sex with someone you know but never expected to?

 

[frankifab]

Have you ever had sex (not limited to fucking) in a steam room or sauna at the gym?

Yes , mostly oral both giving and receiving , since it was not a gay sauna it had to be done quickly before someone caught us

And , I was about to have sex with a straight younger pal , I was 28 , he was 21 ... we were drunk , we even went to a hotel room but he chickened out ...I had a hard on , but he couldn't get a hard on ...maybe cus of the booze or cus he was just scared ...

Have you ever seen somebody die at a highway accident ? ( I have )

 

[LoveMyPeppermill]

And , I was about to have sex with a straight younger pal , I was 28 , he was 21 ... we were drunk , we even went to a hotel room but he chickened out ...I had a hard on , but he couldn't get a hard on ...maybe cus of the booze or cus he was just scared ...

Or maybe he just wasn't turned on enough because he's straight.

 

[frankifab]

Or maybe he just wasn't turned on enough because he's straight.

Yes , he is straight , he was just confused ... he insisted on going to the hotel , I suspected it wouldn't work out ( we'd been drinking at his rooftop the previous 10 months on weekends and nothing had happened between us , but that night changed everything and we never drank on his rooftop anymore ) . After that incident our friendship had a " hiatus " , we resumed our friendship almost a year later , but as I don't live in the capital , we have lost contact

Have you ever seen somebody die at a highway accident ? ( I have )