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have you had a girlfriend that knew u were bi

In one of my past relationships with a girl she didnt like me but then when i started talking about a guy i liked then she wanted me, go figure.. And another one knew i had sex with guys before cause i had no reason to lie about it. however for the most part i wouldnt be like "oh i think your hot, by the way your brother is cute too"
 
I told my first girlfriend I was bi. Well, I was really gay, but wasn't ready to accept that yet. But I figured it was best to warn her at least that I was attracted to guys. She was fine with that.

Well, eventually a guy asked me out. She knew right away that I was more interested in him than her. She cried alot, but eventually accepted it. She feels it is ok now, because at least I didn't leave her for a girl! Because she can't compete with a guy! LOL

Many years later she still writes and sends me pictures of her family.

Looking back, I knewI was in trouble when her and I would go out on a double date and I would stare longingly at the other girls boyfriend!
 
since most straight guys think its awsome to have their girlfriend messing around with another girl....perhaps when they watch, there should be no reason that a girl would want to see or participate in the same thing. girls also feel challenged and want to be "that girl that turnd that guy straight"....as if it was a prize to be won.
 
My experience. 90% of women would get turned off the moment you even alluded to being bisexual. Their minds go into overdrive. The most cynical will blame bisexuals for spreading AIDS - not gays. (We're into tabloid mentality here. But it's suprising how many "broadsheets" revert. UK only.)

Based on that, if you want to keep a woman (and have a man/ want to have a man at the same time) odds are you should never confess.

If you want to be the "real" you - well, that's a different matter.
I wish I'd been braver, younger.
 
I'm a woman and I'm definitely not bi. I don't think it's true to say that 'most' women are bi. Maybe a higher proportion are than men are, I don't know.

I'd be very happy to have a bi boyfriend!!! :gogirl:
 
Did it really need 3 posts to say that? ;)

Don't care if I'm 'the norm' or not. What does 'the norm' mean anyway?
 
I'm married and my wife knows. I'm also sympathetic to the idea that it would be great to have a girl join in. I'm also very much about watching naked bodies and could enjoy that very much.
 
I had couple of gfs that knew. My most recent ex gf was real cool with it. Like we used to watch gay porn before and during sex and it was a blast. Though she was a hypocrit because she did'nt want to get pregnant by me because she thought I fucked alot of guys and that her son/daughter might end up being gay/bi :rolleyes:

That realtionship did'nt end well.heh
 
My wife knows that I'm bi, and she knew before we were married. She's fine with it, and we've actually had some hot 3somes involving another guy. She knows that I love her and that I would never fall in love with another guy. Sex with another guy for me is simply that....sex....The fact that a different man, a different setting, etc., is involved, sometimes helps spice up our sex life as well...

I think that women, like men, are going to vary in how they handle information regarding someone else's sexual preferences. You just have to decide how honest you want to be with them, and at what point in the relationship. With my wife, I told her early, and once I was in a committed relationship with her, I made it clear that I would stop all sexual contact with other men whenever she wanted. Since it spices up our sex life in a variety of ways, she's never made that request...:sex: :sex: :sex:
 
My girlfriend knows. I told her about my sexuality on our first date. Her response was, "Yeah, so?" She picks out guys that she thinks I'd like to have sex with. She's straight and has no interest in sex with women, but she has had a hook up with a guy for every guy that I've been with. It's a great relationship.

Gregory
 
luvaboi3 said:
My girl new that I was bi before we hooked up. And even when we did, talking about our future, she was totally prepared to let me hook up with guys WHILE I was still with her. We even worked out what I would do...I would tell her that I was going to catch up with some people for a bit, that I'd be back home later. But the thing was that I always had to come back to her.

She knew that she couldn't satisfy that part of me, and she believes that people shouldn't deny a part of themselves. But just the sex...I wasn't allowed to start dating guys, otherwise that would be cheating. She said that once I got emotionally involved, then it became a problem, and she'd class that as cheating.

Very complicated, but also hits the spot, don't you think?
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I think that is pretty reasonable. Relationship are complicated, but it seems as if you 2 have discussed this a lot. That always makes life and relationships workable.

I'm with a guy now. But, if it ever ends and I end up with a woman again, I'd tell her from the start. I would rather save myself the trouble of hurting her if we end up getting attached. If she has problems with it from the start it really tells me she is not the one for me. If she can accept it, then I know she's ok to take it further.

I think it depends on the type of relationship. To me sex is sex, no matter the whole; but if I'm in an open relationship with a girl, she should also know I'm going to get with guys if I want to. If she can't handle that, then the card are off the table.
 
I’m definitely a real Bi; a true 3 on the 6 scale. Back a couple of years ago, I had a very, very hot girl fuckbuddy (my view of the relationship at the time). At the time, she was fully aware that I was a very curious untried biguy. She was crazy about me and gave me the hottest, greatest sex (including being an awesome strap-on Jeff Striker top)...|

Unfortunately, I’m a cute, hot, sex pig with an insatiable ass. I wanted to experiment and I did; a lot. I was very open and honest with her. Even tried to get her to go for some group, but she didn't want to share me. Soon, I fell very hard for a great guy and he did for me; great sex and love. But since we both wanted to continue our public political careers, we knew we had to part and keep it in the closet.

After breaking-up with him, I realized a new and deeper connection with my girl fuckbuddy; I fell intensely in love with her, for real. We had been living together for 4 years. Unfortunately, she was no longer crazy for a tried biguy. So we broke-up (2 years ago). Now, she says she loves me, but it's just as friends.

For me personally, great sex seems to turn into real love way too easily. Great sex opens up deep emotional connections for me that are very intense. My well known alias name “Intensepump” isn’t just because I fuck like a horse, though I do; or just because I am a bodybuilder; it is because I emotionally connect with intense sex.

This isn’t a made-up story, it’s my real life. I share it to help warn, be careful, my experiences have led me to a painful emo existence...”life is dark as a dead puppy's eye”....
 
My girlfriend knows what I have in my porn collection. Heck, I show it to her. Actually, today we walked past some guy and she was like "He wasn't too bad, was he?" I love the honesty of it all.
 
I told my ex-girlfriend that i am... she first liked the idea and i fucked her gay bestfriend.
we had sex together, whe spent a nice dec 31st. that was nice... but... a week later she broke our relationship by escaping. I never have had news of her. Her bestfriend was hot... i regret.
 
I have no girl/boyfriends ,just sex-parteners.I am to much independant for to have a "classic" relation.All the girls I meet know I am Bi because I can't have sex with only a girl but with a other bi-man together ;even with the most exciting girl (always bitch's type,big tits,puffy pussy,dream : a female bodybuilder) ,I need a man/group of men with me for high exciting .OK with a man alone but I say directly I am bi (a lot likes that) and I like ,espacially if he is very male type( the best :bodybuilders), to have sex with him like with a female bitch .
 
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