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Haven’t cum in months.. How long have you gone and why? 😒

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So it’s March now.. I think the last time I got off was maybe late October? 🙇🏻‍♂️ This is for sure the longest I’ve ever gone, not even a wet dream. To put it plainly, my ex ruined me for women when she broke up with me. I mean, there’s more to it then that but she really hurt me, just a phone call, she’s found someone else (we’ll still be friends.. riiight) haven’t spoke to her since. I’m not perfect by any means, but I loved her like no other and would never hurt her, but that’s all a long story..

Anyway, just seems my sex drive tanked and boners are rare. Yeah, I could jerk off but why bother? In relationships I was pretty good at holding out til sex during a dry spell, I like to cum for her and with her, save myself.. So the new town I live in I know no one, no friends around and even seeing hot chicks when I do, they prolly suck and have some guy anyway. So I hang out with my ex ex sometimes for something to do, she’s single again as well. I known her 20 years and hanging is fun (usually) but I just can’t get in the mood I guess 🤷🏻‍♂️

She’s one of them chicks who rarely instigates too, and the stars have to align n shit. I’m not the perv I used to be I guess and often she crashes out n I’m just up with myself.. STILL looking at naughty things but it’s just maybe I seen and done it all so fuck it.. I’m going to see her next few days so I’m determined to break this streak damn it. Maybe I feel better after a haircut and letting her see my new pump toy I fashioned 😈

What’s the longest you guys (or girls) have been able to abstain, since puberty? I feel like next time I do get inside a pussy, once I can push balls deep it’s gonna send me over quick. Everyone loves 46.3 seconds of hot sex 😬
 
First of all, sorry about the breaks up. I’m convinced sex/arousal is 99% mental so if you’re not in a very “sexy” mindset, it makes sense you don’t really have a drive right now. Focus on you and getting what you want and it’ll come back!

To answer your question, I had to abstain for about 30 days due to a surgery. Once that 30 days was up though, I jerked off in the shower and my load was so huge and powerful it almost put a hole in the shower wall!!

Not sure if this is a health issue I should get checked out LOL but lately, I find if I don’t blow a load within a week/8 days, it kinda starts to ”hurt” down there, so I make sure I unload every few days, if not EVERY day.
 
Yeah it might be mental somewhat.. I was at the doc today and said about it and they of course want up my antidepressant med (which I don’t take, maybe I will now Idunno) 🤦🏻‍♂️

I also have neuropathy and when that came on I was worse off. Eventually I was able to (uncomfortably) have sex again but that was over a year ago.. My drive got shitty when I was getting sick too and seemed to have recovered until the break up..

Maybe I just need the right girl and warm weather lol.. I could watch some porn and Jack it I’m sure with some booze. I doubt I’d have a problem with guy maybe.. some these stories on here do make it stir.. 😁
 
I’m 72 and can’t go four days without jacking off. I think the longest I went was two weeks after a vasectomy. It took about two strokes!! As I’ve gotten older, my cum volume is down, but the buildup period is longer and more intense. I have to restore my breathing by screaming when I come!!
 
HornyHippy420 said:
I’m 72 and can’t go four days without jacking off. I think the longest I went was two weeks after a vasectomy. It took about two strokes!! As I’ve gotten older, my cum volume is down, but the buildup period is longer and more intense. I have to restore my breathing by screaming when I come!!
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Wow, good for you! There is some truth I’m sure to the “use it or lose it” possibly..
 
Well it did eventually happen, a month ago maybe I had a wet dream. I figured it would happen at some point. So the rare erection caught the better of me in my sleep.. I could be that the doc did get me a viagra script after I’d asked about it and told of my drive being so nonexistent. I don’t think I had taken a pill that day tho, but I do notice it does make you feel more “in the mood”.

Now I just need to maybe at least try to jerk off more when the slightest of mood strikes me. Last week I bought some new (to me) brand of condoms just for the hell of it. If anything I used to enjoy sometimes jerking into a rubber, easy clean up. A few days ago I did just that and came very quick. Have to work on that as well now I guess. Edging is best for me with a pump toy, have to see how well that will work with a Viagra, should be fun. Then see how the condom fits lol
 
When i have study fuckbud dies i try not to jerk off as much i like to save the loads for them.

I used to get blow jobs from this guy so i went two weeks with out jerking off and we got together and i shot a few huge loads down his throat.
 
USEDCAR said:
When i have study fuckbud dies i try not to jerk off as much i like to save the loads for them.

I used to get blow jobs from this guy so i went two weeks with out jerking off and we got together and i shot a few huge loads down his throat.
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Yeah I never had much trouble when I used to save loads on purpose. I could edge for hours and not finish. Cumming too often can be draining on energy too. The most I did was 8 times in a day, and it was a chore the last few..

Retention never really seemed to make a load noticeably bigger for me either, but that can depend on many factors too, like hydration. I can usually spurt pretty good but wish I could cum fountains like some guys seem to. If I had a JO bud it would be hot to compare when we cum, just sitting next to each other and letting it fly. And maybe film it and go for another round 👀
 
I'm 71 and can't recall going more than 3 days when not ill.
 
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