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He doesn't buy it

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I told my parents I'm gay.


And they don't buy it.

My dad doesn't like my answer to "when did you know?" and "how do you know?" because he says I'm being too "intuitive"

So...what did you guys say when people said "how do you know?" Apparently "because guys turn me on and girls don't" isn't good enough.

Ugh.
 
"I got fucked in the ass by a stranger, and not only did I stay hard, I shot before he did."

...actually, you'd better not use that one.

No one ever asked me "how do you know?". They knew I meant it.

And "because guys turn me on and girls don't" isn't just good enough, it's the FUCKING DEFINITION. Stick with it. :)

Lex
 
I threw it right back at them and said "the same way you knew you were straight"

Case closed!
 
Ask them how they knew they liked girls/guys and tell them that that's the way you know. Guys turn you on, girls don't.
 
Ask him how does he know he's not gay? Make him answer it in detail. Then fire the same reasons (gender altered at necessary) as to why you're not straight. If he still doesn't accept it, then tell you know because you're not an idiot.

Remember the stages of acceptance. He obviously in the denial stage, but he will get over it. Just keep being yourself and give it some time. Whenever he questions you, be very assertive in saying that you are gay and that's not going to change.
 
Tell them you just know, as they know they are straight.

But give them a bit of time for it all to sink in, it does take time, but you will get there in the end. Hang in there!
 
i agree with vette. the stages of denial are just stages.

my mother said 'are you sure?' and i said 'yea, yea im sure.' then she said 'ok just be with guys your own age'
 
Bone up (hehehe) on the evidence for a genetic component to homosexual orientation, see if you can identify any unmarried aunts or swishy uncles, and then suggest to your parents that your homosexuality was transmitted through one or the other of them. That should place the cat satisfactorily among the pigeons.
 
"I asked the guys who's dicks I've sucked if I'm any good, and they all say I'm the best."

yeah.. I know... straight people can be so clueless sometimes.
 
Well I guess they know your serious when you bring him your first boyfriend. Until then just ignore them as best as you can without upsetting them.

If they ask you though if you've tried sleeping with a woman......ask them (well this would only apply to your dad if he's tried sleeping with a guy to prove he's straight?! )
 
Actually, yeah. The time I told my parents that I had a boyfriend was when they actually treated it seriously like I wasn't 'confused'.

That isn't to say that you should rush out and get one just for the sake of bringing one home to convince your parents.
 


Try that. If even THAT doesn't work, you'll just have to explain to them about the whole deal of sexual attraction. Explain to them how, when you look at a girl, you're as turned on as you would be seeing a really furry cat. But when you look at boys, well, Little Timmy goes to the north pole every time.
 
The problem with coming out is that really puts sometimes rather clueless people into an awkward position of being compelled to react to a statement that per se, does not require any response.

Gee, how do you know? Why wouldn't they just take your word for it, at this stage. I am pretty sure, they really do not want any material evidence to be presented to them.

Actually, when you come to think about it, isn't the whole 'coming out' concept somewhat unproductive?

Yup. I am gay. So, what are my parents supposed to say or do about it?

They have always respected me and treated me reasonably well. I hope that this won't really change.

I am neither seeking their approval nor would I change absolutely anything, if they told me, they were not in agreement with me.

I still strongly believe in doing things rather than always verbalizing them. If they are not catching the drift, well, I'd leave it there...

Because, any statement to that effect actually implies that you are seeking their approval. And I seek no one's approval for anything.

SC
 
Personally, I'd let it just sink in for a while. You've done your piece and come out to them. The next step is for them to come to terms with it, which is going to require some introspection on their part.
 
Know the difference between recognizing what is inside you -- compared to what others think is or oughta be inside you. Some folks may try to reason with you, especially if they think somehow it's negotiable.
 
" I knew the moment I saw you and mom kissing. It's your fault I'm gay!" use that. if that doesn't work say, ' I knew when I could only get off thinking about the football team while jacking off." Or my personal fav,"I think i knew when you had me spend all that alone time with father michael at church."
 
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