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He doesn't wear socks :-(

Thanks for all your comments. I have to say, with all the problems that one could have, I can't believe this is holding me back. I have not seen him since that day, he has called many times and each time, I try to make excuses to not see him. I feel bad, but I am embarrassed for him, I don't want to have to tell him to wash his feet or to wear socks. It just doesn't seem right. Oh well, if I'm able to convey the message in a nice way, I'll certainly tell him.
 
Tell him to wear flip flops.
I wear flip flops all year round, even in snowy winter.

Except at work where I'm forced to wear shoes and socks.
 
Making up excuses to not see him is the worst thing you can do. You reject his whole personality while actually you have problems only with his feet. I think he made a mistake when he arrived without socks but it was too late when he realized it. He tried to get off with a joke but obviously that was not the best strategy. With more composure I would have declared that "Hey, it was a long day, my feet stinks, could I wash it quickly somewhere?" Probably he was nervous about it all the time. If he is a cute and smart guy I would call him immediately. This is not something you can't talk about when happens the next time. Probably he will be more cautious or you can warn him in a friendly way with a remark that you are so obsessed with cleanliness. You know being a freak is another fault and it is not so easy to solve the problem than washing somebody's feet...
 
I'd just tell him. If he knows they stink and warned you they stink he's not going to be upset if you say 'would you mind washing your feet they smell awful'. I'm sure he would prefer it to passive-aggressive avoidance.
 
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