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He got hard, now what?

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island, I admire how polite you are toward all the accusations you get from other posts. it's not like you deflowered your friend and got him pregnant. it's not that big a deal, really, it's just something naughty between friends, if he had woken up and got pissed at you, you'd probably just get hit in the stomach and no cops will be showing at your door. well, here's an idea, since dave said he doesn't masturbate, maybe you could tell him you do and ask him if he ever wondered about it.
 
I once let a guy molest me in my "sleep". We were in the 6th grade though... it got stiff but nothing really happened.
 
island123 said:
Is it possible to get hard while being touched in sensitive places and not be awake? Does anyone have any stories similar to this one?
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I don't think so - I think he was likely awake....

I once slept in the same bed as a uni mate who I was seriously in love with (he didn't know, although he does now know that I am gay and is totally cool about it - very supportive). Anyway, I knew he was a deep sleeper, and after a while I put my hand into his underwear and played with his soft dick. There was not even a remote stirring. Having said that, there are probably sleep cycles where hard ons do happen - people have wet dreams afterall - it just seems like a bit of a long shot that he was at that stage when you chose to have a feel.

Afterwards and to this day, I wish I hadn't done it. He was, and still is, a very dear friend of mine, and I violated him.

I would advise you to confide in your friend that you are gay and ask him to keep it in confidence. See how he reacts, and who knows you may end up with a boyfriend. We all make mistakes, so don't sweat it - just learn from it and be honest in future.
 
westwood blues- It makes sense that erections occur during REM sleep, especially since dreams are believed to be strongest during this stage of the sleeping cycle. However, in this case, I don't think it was a naturally occuring erection, since he got it as I was touching him. To clarify, I'm not saying it had to be lust(that was my initial question). Thanks for you response; I learned something new :D

I didn't take notice of his breathing.

budgie boy- Thanks for your reply. After all, isn't life all about learning from mistakes?

weasley- Thanks :-) I don't like attacking people. On the contrary, I try to understand them. I might not agree with what they are saying, but I know where they are coming from; and thus I respect their opinions.
 
Even though he is effeminate, he won't do "non-manly" things; or things that could be mis-interpreted. He is very "soft" in the way he acts, but he wouldn't get in close contact with other guys like in wrestling. Since everybody thinks he is gay, he probably tries to avoid doing anything that can prove it. I am considering, however, doing some things that can tease him ;) I won't go too far though, since I highly doubt he will act on his feelings. I see him as someone who will get married and come out after many years.
 
why don't you ask your mate for a wank? he might do it with you
 
Coping a feel while a man is asleep . . . shady stuff dude. It sounds like, from the whole "I don't masturbate" thing, that this guy has a repressed sexuality. I know a guy like this, who is almost definitely gay, but somewhat asexual now because he's really religious and so he's repressed that side of himself altogether.
 
darkstormy said:
Coping a feel while a man is asleep . . . shady stuff dude. It sounds like, from the whole "I don't masturbate" thing, that this guy has a repressed sexuality. I know a guy like this, who is almost definitely gay, but somewhat asexual now because he's really religious and so he's repressed that side of himself altogether.
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That's a shame.
 
darkstormy.... that could be an explanation. He is sort of asexual. I mean... he doesn't do anything; not even kiss lol. He went out with this girl once... but they didnt do anything at all. They broke up very soon. I don't think I'm going to pursue anything with Dave; that night lust just took over. I don't want to deal with him and come out hurt.
 
westwood blues said:
However, if this guy is effeminate and prefers to bake cookies rather than play sports, maybe you should break out the Betty Crocker and bake with him. ;) After that, you're on your own. Maybe you should just try to get to know the guy. After you do that, you can determine whether you have any common interests. If you do, then go with that. Do something together and get closer to him. Some virgins are really tough to crack, but they ultimately crack if you're persistent. Is this guy worth it? I hope so.
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i do want to also add that baking cookies, liking to cook, and doing activiites like knitting/crochet blankets is not synonomous with being effeminate. i like to cook meals (not so much cookies) deserts, and play sports, and any craft with my hands, cause hey, what the hell will you do when living on your own? who will cook for you? and i am certainly not effeminate.

but rather than splitting hairs with you, i would rather agree with you, because you are correct in most of the cases, i am just pointing out the possibilities of exceptions.

exceptions such as straight guys crochetting. it is NOT a woman's craft just cause most crocheters are women. the USC quarterback happens to be an avid crocheter and sells his beanies to raise money for the team. cool hugh?

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you would think that if somebody was startled by a feeling up down there they would have an uncontrollable reaction to open their eyes..did you see his eyes open? maybe he was turned away from you. then he just closed his eyes again and turned to you to give you better access to his cock. i think he was aksing for more. i know if i was being felt up in my sleep i would turn over and give the body language of "more please".....(!)
 
westwood blues said:
Dude, I didn't think that anyone would really take that comment about being effeminate and breaking out the Betty Crocker seriously. :D It was intended to be a joke. Everyone knows that an effeminate guy cooks alot better than a butch guy! So you must taste his cooking. Just joking again. :D
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no no its not like that, i enjoyed the joke actually, it made me smile, i was just worried that others who didnt know it was a joke might think it was a true statement...so i wanted to add to it.

LOL....taste his cooking......perhaps what he is cooking "down there"?...LOL:p
 
Not to be mean, but ask him out. Straight out, say you have the hots for him. From the sound of it if he's straight nd says no he'll still be friend with you. If he says yes I guess he'll concede to experiment a little first with mutual wanking, etc.
 
He was awake.

You can get a guy hard while he is awake and keep it hard once he falls asleep (I've done it lol) but you can't get a guy hard while they are asleep (tried this as well heh).

So he was awake and when he turned over to face you he probably was going to reciprocate but you chickened out and turned over. It was a bad thing you did to touch him even if he wasn't asleep. You need permission and consent to touch another boy's body.

Has he treated you any differently since the sleep over?
 
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