He is so confusing...

[LateNite85]

I wouldn't do anything. I think if a guy was interested in me he wouldn't tell me he was straight.

 

[mascbiguy]

do nothing, let him do the work to get you into bed. if he is interested he will

 

[josher]

When we're attracted to someone, we sometimes interpret things as "signals" that really aren't.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

I hate to break the news to you guys, but, yeah, many guys out there lie through their teeth and do even worse things, when you come to think about it. Think twice before buying into their stories at full retail.

Every hot consenting adult dude is a legitimate target. So, if he is flirting, and you like him, hell, flirt back.

He says, he is straight. Sure, until proven otherwise, he is straight or whatever he says, he is. Lots of dudes insist on being 'str8' partly because they, too know that some gay dudes find that trait to be super desirable.

Words mean little in the context of truth these days. And since the actions always speak louder than words, I'd let the dude put on his moves and pick it up from there.

SC

 

[spreadeagle]

There's a poem by Stevie Smith - 'not waving but drowning' - Signals are meaningless unless you both attended the same sign language school. If a relationship is to progress beyond fluttering eyelashes, flirting glance and wearing the bottom button of your jeans undone, then at some point one or other of you will have to throw away the semaphore flags and resort to speech - as scary as that may seem.

Someone as uncertain of his sexuality as this person seems to be will be so sexually inexperienced as to make the likelihood excessively slim of any sexual encounter with him being at all thrilling.

 

[G-Lexington]

Ask.

Lex

 

[Lucas07]

There's a poem by Stevie Smith - 'not waving but drowning' - Signals are meaningless unless you both attended the same sign language school. If a relationship is to progress beyond fluttering eyelashes, flirting glance and wearing the bottom button of your jeans undone, then at some point one or other of you will have to throw away the semaphore flags and resort to speech - as scary as that may seem.

Someone as uncertain of his sexuality as this person seems to be will be so sexually inexperienced as to make the likelihood excessively slim of any sexual encounter with him being at all thrilling.

Wow spread eagle... Very well said