Helllllllpppp!!!!

[Fetishboy64]

Ok heres the thing, try to keep up, the guy I've liked for ages has just come out of being bi and has told my friend that he likes me BUT no one knows im bi and is in love with him and he don't know that i know that he likes me, so i need your HELP!!! what shoudl i do

 

[Under-taken]

Start talking to him more, ease yourself into getting to know him better and see if he comes onto you or you get to the point where you can open up to him. Well, that's what I'd do in a situation like that I suppose.

 

[rareboy]

Tell him you're bi.

And that you want to fuck like wild baboons.

 

[mbamike]

Walk up to him, introduce yourself, and ask him if he would be interested in grabbing a coffee, tea, soda, beer, wine, ...
sometime.

Someone needs to make the first move or you both will lose out.

 

[Nomenclature]

Break the ice, start talking to him more and start letting him know you like him, too.

 

[RobUK2]

Can't think of a better reason to tell someone about your sexuality...

 

[Seasoned]

Life's short. Take risks.

 

[Willie Boy]

Ok heres the thing, try to keep up, the guy I've liked for ages has just come out of being bi and has told my friend that he likes me BUT no one knows im bi and is in love with him and he don't know that i know that he likes me, so i need your HELP!!! what shoudl i do

If you want a real relationship take some time and get to know him. Go out for coffee. lunches and talk. Take the time to become friends and build from there. It'll be worth it in the long run.

If all you want is a simple fuck buddy who may or may not like you in the morning, just go right up to him and give him a kiss on the lips.

 

[Fetishboy64]

thanks guys probally shouldve mentioned we are actually friends and have been for 4 years and we do friend flirting like straight guys do if you know what I mean, it's so annoying and I'm afraid if I tell him I'm bi he will tell people

 

[Willie Boy]

thanks guys probally shouldve mentioned we are actually friends and have been for 4 years and we do friend flirting like straight guys do if you know what I mean, it's so annoying and I'm afraid if I tell him I'm bi he will tell people

If he's a true friend he wont intentionally break your confidence. Tell him when you feel comfortable with trusting him, but be sure to explain that you aren't ready to go public with it when you do. Its probably safe to trust him now, but only you can tell what kind of friend he is.

 

[Hot White Trash]

Can I just say that I think the whole bi thing is just an easy way of saying I like guys. I did the same thing, told a good buddy I was bi. Which was bs.

That is not to say that some people aren't bi for real. But I think it applies more to women than men.

 

[bankside]

Tell him. And then tell other people. That way you don't need to worry about him getting all the fun of telling other people, you can enjoy it too.

 

[Willie Boy]

Can I just say that I think the whole bi thing is just an easy way of saying I like guys. I did the same thing, told a good buddy I was bi. Which was bs.

That is not to say that some people aren't bi for real. But I think it applies more to women than men.

As a bisexual guy who happens to know quite a few other bisexual guys I have to say your thinking is BS. That's not to say you don't have any wisdom. But I think it applies more to what you are given than what you come up with on your own.

 

[Hot White Trash]

Yeah sure.

 

[StlKj]

He obviously felt your friend was someone he could reveal his bisexuality to without being judged, and your friend told you, so perhaps this is a friend you could confide in as well? (unless, of course, they told you, "ew, he's bisexual and wants you! ew!")

 

[RobUK2]

Can I just say that I think the whole bi thing is just an easy way of saying I like guys. I did the same thing, told a good buddy I was bi. Which was bs.

That is not to say that some people aren't bi for real. But I think it applies more to women than men.

THAT IS SIMPLY NOT TRUE!

This is a perfect example of the kind of ignorant bi-phobia that bisexual people have to put up with from certain members of the gay community!

You wouldn't put up with someone posting some homophobic statements on here - so why do feel able to post bi-phobic statements?

 

[Willie Boy]

THAT IS SIMPLY NOT TRUE!

This is a perfect example of the kind of ignorant bi-phobia that bisexual people have to put up with from certain members of the gay community!

You wouldn't put up with someone posting some homophobic statements on here - so why do feel able to post bi-phobic statements?

Because he doesn't have the intelligence God gave a snail?

 

[Fetishboy64]

erm guys you're arguement isn't helping meeeee

 

[Hot White Trash]

Actually the incoherence from a gay guy hiding behind supposed bisexuality should tell you your friend is gay.

 

[RobUK2]

Sorry, FB64.

It just comes down to a risk - same with asking anyone out, be it a girl or a boy.

There's always a risk of being rejected. If he's a good friend, you might not want to risk losing a friendship. If he's not, go for it - people aren't often spiteful enough to 'out' someone - he probably understands this more than most people... So, if you've got nothing to lose, go for it mate!

Rob