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Hello, im new here just saying hihi

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First off, welcme to Jub!:wave: The time you spend here will help answer many of your questions. I, for one have no answer to the first one. As for liking "fruity" gays, the're called "effeminate" gays, by the way. It sounds nicer. I'm not attracted to them sexually, but they are nice friends to have. Just look for what makes you happy. And yes, there are plenty of happy gay couples. You will meet many of them here. Just have fun and post and get to know your fellow Jubbers!
 
Hi, and welcome. I must say, first off, that you gave me my first smile of the day. When I saw your name, I immediately thought of the Ewoks from Star Wars.

Now, I might suggest that you post this same thing (or have this thread moved) to the 'Coming Out' forum here. It will get the attention it deserves, and you will most certainly get the answers you seek.

Topics like this tend to become lost very quickly. If you need help getting it moved by a Moderator, let us know and we will help you.
 
I've found a moderator online. I'll ask him to move it for you. Best of luck getting the help you need.
 
Done!

The benefit of this forum is that it is a "No Flame" zone - and is specifically designed for the type of questions you are asking.

Thx Neil for highlighting this.
 
hey jubjub:

a new experience awaits you, a place where you can be you...maintaing a modicum of good manners of course. its a place to relax, enjoy, share you knowledge and experiences and to learn from others.

(*W*) (UU) (*W*) (UU) (*W*) (UU) (*W*) (UU) (*W*) (UU) (*W*)

:band: :thewave: :band:
 
Hi jubjub:wave:

I'm fairly new to this aswell but everyone makes you feel very welcome.

As for what's being gay all about - well its what ever you want it to be. As you will soon see from these forums there is no such thing as a standard gay guy. Everyones different with every possible point of view on every possible subject. Just like life in general.

The only thing jubbers all seem to have in common is that they are really friendly.

Enjoy!
 
My Sentiments Pringle excuse slight repetition but it is just to emphasise the points

My answer to the homophobic parents was just not to tell them, it's none of their bussiness. I know I am gay because I am only sexually attracted to men, not all men of course. I find personality the be the greatest factor in a true attraction. It wouldn't matter if the great personality was in a jock boddy or a camp one, and I'm sure the same is true for others.

You can be gay without having sex, without going to the gym but if you don't masturbate either you may have a problem. The same applies to being straight. Being gay just means you have a strong attraction to the same sex. How you want to express it is where the question of "gay lifesyle" comes in. This is really your first choice once you realise you are gay. You can go on the scene, go to the gym, prance around with a limp wrist and a handbag, it's about what you feel happy with.

School can be a problem, I had a bad time there for a bit when some homophobes found out about a relationship I had with another boy. Fortunately it was all name calling and none of my friends joined in. In the end I managed to ignore them and doing this took the fun out of it for them and they stopped. Bullies often only continue when they get a response but note I said OFTEN not allways.

Hope this helps and enjoy jub.
 
Hi jubjub39, and welcome from me too! :wave: I'm glad you're here.

Have you read through the threads are are "stickys" at the top of this forum? Some of that information might be very helpful to you as you deal with family and friends in the future.

Again, welcome. Let us know how we can help you.
 
Hey Jubjub... like the name btw.. it's cute :D...
Umm.. i don't actually post on here often lately, but I would like to welcome u to our humble abode.

Your questions are reasonable..lol.. although there is no real simple answer to any of them... which is unfortunate..

1: parents are unpredictable..i thought my folks would hate me for coming out, but they took it really well. I think it all boils down to how close you are to your family. Even if they have strong beliefs against homosexuality, if you are extremely close to them, I genuinely believe they will find a way to adapt and eventually support you.

2: all people are different.. even within the gay community there are people who discriminate, and they choose not to like others who are different. Which is ironic I must say. Anywho.. some so called 'butch' gays will definitely steer clear of the flamers, and vice versa... but on the most part, I've found guys to be pretty open, and the ones who have problems dealing with stereotypes usually have insecurities about their own homosexuality. I only know this because i used to try to be the butch gay guy, but when it came down to it, i'm just me.. i have butch moments and i have flamer moments... i love them all.

3: being gay ... well, it's the same as being straight.. some people choose to be sluts..lol... being blunt, but it's true.. but there are also many who are looking for serious relationships.. me and my boy just celebrated our 5 month anniversary, and we're doing awesome.. being gay is just a small part of who you are... just like being short, or having blond hair.

so... i hope that helped a bit... probably not, since I often ramble incoherently :P.. take care dude, and good luck exploring the world of HOMOSEXUALITY :D.. hehe
 
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