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HELP! I Caught My Dad Watching Porn

Why is this even a question you would ask?

Don't be an asshat.
 
Next time, offer to watch porn with him.
 
Oh - and just as a follow up - something I heard on the radio today. The local Indie station was asking people to phone in with details of any 'inappropriate advice' they had received. One girl responded that she had once asked her mother "what were you doing when you were my age" (20)?

The reply? "A lot of acid". (LOL)...I can relate to that...:badgrin:

At some family dinner we were talking about the supposed "soft drugs" and came to weed and whether it should be legal or not. And I said (much to the shock of my parents and uncles) that I don't have a problem with weed being legalized. While they were telling me how awful it is and that this is a bad idea, my grandmother (86 at that time) reigned in "Oh shut up already, do you think I never realized what kind of cigarettes were going around at your parties?"
Awkward silence.
And my parents never had any "drug talk" with me again ;)
 
I'm of two minds about this... on the one hand, I hate to let hypocrites get away with anything, so I'd be tempted to confront him; on the other hand, I know how awkward it must be for most people to discuss such things with their fathers, especially when they have secrets of their own to protect.

Now, if it had been me, I would have got the garden hose and given him a good soaking right then and there. But then, I wasn't raised by a man with whom I'd have to feel uncomfortable talking about sex: my father tends toward the TMI side of the equation, he actually gave me porn when I was thirteen. I also wasn't raised by a hypocrite... my father may be a selfish asshole and an all-around poor excuse for a human being, but at least he's fairly transparent about it. So I can't know how you must be feeling about finding your father in such an act (I could only wish that's all I'd seen my father doing).

But here's the thing: you clearly don't have the kind of relationship with your father where you get to discuss things of an intimate nature, so either change that by discussing it and coming out to him (you can't call a man on his secrets while keeping your own) or keep the status quo and try to forget what you saw. There is no middle ground that I can see.
 
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