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HELP! I think I'm STRAIGHT!!!

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ok so here is the thing...never been with a guy, but i love to look at men and am totally attracted to them, but i also think women are attractive...when i am drunk i am even more attracted to men...but exponentially more attractive to women...what does this mean!? am i gay? am i bi? am i straight!?
 
Does it matter? Look at this as any opportunity to have sex with twice as many people as the average person. There is an old Crosy, Stills, Nash and Young song: Love The One You're With. BTW, you say you haven't had sex with a man. Have you had sex wiht a woman? Give men a chance as well.
 
Sorry but I can't help you... noone can. If you're truly straight then there is nothing you or anyone can do about it.

You do have a choice, however, to not live the stereotypical straight lifestyle.
 
Take a breath relax you will decide which path you want to choose. Don't worry your mind and body will steer you to what you really feel comfy with.
 
justified said:
ok so here is the thing...never been with a guy, but i love to look at men and am totally attracted to them, but i also think women are attractive...when i am drunk i am even more attracted to men...but exponentially more attractive to women...what does this mean!? am i gay? am i bi? am i straight!?
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Who's that hottie you have as your Avatar?
 
just do whatever feels right at the moment (in my opinion) and if you dont like it, dont do it anymore.
 
You're still young, sir. And as such, it's not surprisingly that you haven't precisely hit on what it is you're attracted to. Don't feel the need to announce your "orientation' to the world before you yourself know what it is. Do some more exploring. Wait, date, masturbate. If anyone asks, just say, "I'm still trying to figure it all out." Nothing wrong with not knowing. There IS something wrong with "choosing your team" just because you feel like you have to.

Lex
 
Since no one else has bothered to tell you, I think you are very bi, and leaning a bit towards being gay.
 
I recommend tryouts with the different teams before you choose which one you want to play for.
 
You're bisexual, since there's physical attraction to both sexes. But try not to depend too much on a label- it's only there for convenience's sake, just as we label, say, mustard instead of calling it "the spicy yellow gooey stuff".
 
You'll have to figure out how you identify your sexuality, but having sexual attraction to men definitely makes you not straight.
 
If you were really straight you wouldn't be on this forum.

I know plenty of truly straight guys. They might respect gays (or not) but they won't come onto a gay forum or even question it for a second.

Maybe you're bi.
 
Only you can figure that out- not us. Don't ask us. Ask yourself. After all, you know yourself a lot better than we do.
If you were really straight, would you be here and would you admit to "liking to look at men"?

There's more to life than the absolutes - gay or straight. You can be whatever you want to be.
After all, labels were created by a heterosexist society. You are what you are, whatever that is.
"Think outside the box". You don't have to describe yourself using a label.
 
Chances are you're bi, even more so when you're drunk. Alcohol lowers inhibitions (toward both sexes) and attractions to males don't seem so threatening then.

Go with your instincts and your feelings. They won't betray you. For a while, forget labels--they are much too value-laden right now for where you are.


(P.S. "Straight" guys don't "love to look at men.")
 
Don't worry too much about labels. Experiment with both and figure it out later. Just be sure you don't lead anyone into thinking your experimentation is more than what it is. Good luck!
 
Just go out and have fun, mess around (safely of course) and see what you like! :) Just go enjoy yourself, and like vette said, make sure you're partners know that it's just for fun, and nothing more. You can worry about the more parts after you figure out what you like.

But judging from your gallery... Well, it didn't seem so straight to me, that's all i'll say! :D
 
Just wait 6 or 7 more years and you will have it figured out. You are only 22. Just keep your dick in your pants until you are 28 or older.
You don't want to get married and make your wife pregnant then suddenly discover you are gay. And you surely don't want to meet a cute young guy and make him fall in love with you then decide you want to live the straight life.
You've got it tough man.
But that's the way life is sometimes. You've got to figure out yourself before you can go and let someone fall in love with you.... and have to tell them that 'you've discovered another side of yourself' and will have to leave them.

That wouldn't be fair to them at all. A bad lot you've been given in life man.... but it's one you have to deal with. And you've got to be fair and honest with those that you date or want a relationship with.
 
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