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Help! I want to get my partner into dirty talk but i don't know how

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My partner and i have discussed dirty talk, however he said it kind of makes him giggle when he does it. He said he feels like he sounds strange or stupid when he tries it out. I've been looking everywhere for tips, but i can't find any that are helpful. Thing is, when i get off after he cums, i sorta create a situation in my head. Where it becomes a roleplay kind of thing. It would usually be where he is forcing me to cum.
ex:
If you want me to breed your little hole, you're going to have to cum first.
Your hole is going to get nice and tight after you cum--and then im going to open it right up--drive my cock all the way inside you.

Then afterwards, i cum and i guess it's sort of a mystery in a way as to how i do it. But before i used to suck him after he fucked me, of course after he cleaned it off. Its the sort of dominance thing, where i like the feeling that he makes me suck his cock. So i really wanna stop fantasizing since he's next to me, and just have him make me cum--but i kinda feel like if it can't work, well what are ya gonna do? Plus i don't wanna give him a script and be a director :(

Does anyone have suggestions?
 
start by saying those things to him, but start subtle. for example: Do you like my tight ass? C'mon, fuck my ass. Do you want to cum inside of me baby? You like banging me? Tell me you want to shoot inside of me.

Say those in forms of questions..he will try to ignore it at first, but as time progress, he will have to reply "yes or no".

As with all other things in life, the more you get expose to things, the more easier it is to adapt to.

eventually one day, he's going to start becoming more verbal, as it has already becoming a routine of you asking him dirty talk, he will one day start saying it back and feeling more comfortable about it.
 
Just do it with him. Don't wait for him to start. Instead of him saying "If you want me to breed your little hole, you're going to have to cum first", you can say "You're gonna make me cum for you, aren't you? You're gonna force me to cum for you, right?"

Chances are, he'll giggle and laugh and feel it's silly. At first. But stay in character. Keep at it. Get really into it. As you reach orgasm, get louder and more insistent. "Yeah! Make me cum for you! Pull it out of me!" Then after your (presumably killer) orgasm, and after you've rested up a bit, tell him how amazing hot that made you.

My guess is he'll pick up on it pretty quick. :)

Lex
 
I think dirty talk would lose its effect if it was not completely spontaneous. Planning for it just wouldn't be the same vs someone just doing it without discussing beforehand.
 
Eternaldarkness said:
...he will have to reply "yes or no"....
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You forgot the "Will you shut the fuck up and just let me screw you" option. ;) The pressure to 'perform' in a way that you really don't want to can often be the biggest passion killer. If the guy isn't into it, then probably no amount of cajoling and hinting is going to make a difference.
 
Sadly, i'll have to wait probably til this weekend or something. I really appreciate your responses. I'm clueless about it and i just needed to get more comfortable about initiating it. You guys are awesome!. Thank you again!!!!
 
quasar said:
You forgot the "Will you shut the fuck up and just let me screw you" option. ;) The pressure to 'perform' in a way that you really don't want to can often be the biggest passion killer. If the guy isn't into it, then probably no amount of cajoling and hinting is going to make a difference.
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Interestingly enough, sometimes it just happens. I go with it in the moment. I play that up real good while it happens.
 
quasar said:
You forgot the "Will you shut the fuck up and just let me screw you" option. ;) The pressure to 'perform' in a way that you really don't want to can often be the biggest passion killer. If the guy isn't into it, then probably no amount of cajoling and hinting is going to make a difference.
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Congrats if he's got the gut to say that..the poor boy is saying that he giggles at the thought of dirty talking...

but..."will you shut the fuck up and let me "screw you" is pretty hot if its coming out from a hot man. .:twisted:
 
>>>but..."will you shut the fuck up and let me "screw you" is pretty hot if its coming out from a hot man.

From what I understand, "is this your jacket?", "is this the downtown bus" and "your total is $6.73 - please drive around" is pretty hot when it's coming from a hot man.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
>>>but..."will you shut the fuck up and let me "screw you" is pretty hot if its coming out from a hot man.

From what I understand, "is this your jacket?", "is this the downtown bus" and "your total is $6.73 - please drive around" is pretty hot when it's coming from a hot man.

Lex
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Oh man, you guys have taken dirty talk to new height! I have so much to learn.

I'll practice quotes above with my partner...and "Need help with that?", "Coke or Pepsi?", "Did you find [STRIKE]my hole [/STRIKE]everything all right?" or "Would you like fries with that?"
 
Ive been bringing it up actually. Though more over, I'm working on getting a bit more aggressive. He's already very aggressive, but I mean more to the point where, he holds me in place and gets what he wants and I'm holding on cuz he would then be slam-fucking me. A little bit more relentless is what I mean. Then I'll get into the dirty talk a bit. Once they both get going---forget it. Lol.

The control and dominance thing is what really gets me going. I like the idea of him getting into that role where he owns my hole. And he's going to fuck me whichever way he needs to, to get off. If it hurts a little, I'm okay with it. Cuz he'll know that I like it when he makes it clear to me that it belongs to him, and him only.

:D
 
I think I understand where this is going.
"Bring me to Rainbow Mountain!"
"Get me some cotton candy"
"ALL the cotton candy!!"
 
Vannie said:
A little banjo music might help set the mood.
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your usrname is awesome. my nickname is vanny in fact. lol any suggestion for what songs sound good on a banjo? :P

by the way, the mood is never really lost bc of the fact that we don't have sex everyday bc we don't get to see each other often. so when we do....you know whats up :D
 
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