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Help! Is my straight guy friend attracted to me?

jjizzy

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I'm a bisexual but my best friend doesn't know. We both participate in the same sport @ college. There are a lot of people ''pretending'' to be gay. He takes it to the extreme. We kiss each other(on the lips and his girlfriend doesn't care), we touch each other( he feels my chest and slowly goes down to my balls in a passionate way), and we tell each other ''I love you'' everyday. He says he loves me like a brother. Is he into me or should I give up?
 
Give up. You're not honest with him(he doesn't know you're bi), he's not honest with you, himself, or his girl - and frankly, that's a weird way of playing around with someone even if you ARE cool and secure in your sexuality). I love some of my friends like brothers(and they know i'm gay)... but I don't go around groping them

Walk. Away.
 
I feel like I lived on Mars all my life after reading these types of threads on JUB. Where the fuck do you people find these "straight" friends who kiss you, touch your balls, let you suck them, fuck them. :rolleyes:
 
When he goes down towards your balls is this in front of friends as to be funny? or is it just the two of you?
 
The mind boggles.
 
99.99% he is just comfortable with his sexuality.

I've had a few straight friends in the past that were similar. It was all about being close friends without bullshit inbetween. They knew they were straight, I knew I was bi (they thought I was straight) however I had no sexual interest in them, just good friends.

Straight guys 'acting gay' is a common phenomenon especially in highschool/college. I really don't understand what it is all about but it probably has something to do with just being comfortable with yourself and your friends. Its a good way of showing that you love your best friends without having to say it.
 
Well, first off he clearly isn't straight... Tell him that you're not straight either and go for it!
 
I know alot of guys in my high school would "play gay". Feel each other up, pretend to kiss, make up stories, so I get what you mean. None of them were gay. They were so comfortable with their sexuality they thought it was fun to pretend that they were gay....which is a bit queer I suppose.

Anyway, yeah, give up. He has a girlfriend and thinks your straight: sounds like he just thinks the two of you are goofing around. "Bromance's" (as much as some hate the name) are in. Guys getting more intimate with each other, but still on a platonic level, is more common these days.
 
You say that he is your best friend. So you should be able to talk to him openly and honestly about this. Have a talk with him, tell him that if you want to have that kind of relationship with him, to make a date and you can do that kind of activity at the proper place and time (like for example in your bedroom some evening). Just deal with it man-to-man on the level. If he is your best friend, he will accept that you are bisexual so tell him. If he truly is your friend he will talk about this, instead of constantly acting it out. He may not be willing to discuss it, but at least bringing it up will stop the endless game. Otherwise this is going to go on forever and you're going to be in a constant state of worry, wonder and frustration.
 
hi Jjizzy,

There are alot of straight guys who are used to kiss each other, and as well very frequently. Has alot to do with cultural backgrounds, country where one was born & raised, etc. So, IMO, no big deal if he is frequently kissing and hugging you, or when he is playing with your chest.

Bw92116 told you:
You say that he is your best friend. (..) If he is your best friend, he will accept that you are bisexual so tell him. If he truly is your friend he will talk about this, instead of constantly acting it out. He may not be willing to discuss it, but at least bringing it up will stop the endless game. Otherwise this is going to go on forever and you're going to be in a constant state of worry, wonder and frustration.
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and I underline this advice of Bw92116. Are there any reasons why you should not tell your best friend that you are bi (so also interested in males in a sexual way)? Any reason why you hide such an important part of your own identity from your 'best friend'? Are you realizing that you are more or less 'lying' to him, when you keep pretending that you are 100% straight?

You tell us you go college, and I have no idea about your age (are you out to anyone)?

So I would advise you to open yourself to him, and see how he reacts.

Best wishes, and feel free to ask for more advice.
 
His girlfriend knows you are gay and finds it a bit of a turn on and will tell him to have sex with you and then things will get interesting........
 
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