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help me pick out my first dildo

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Ok. I never been with a guy but i really wanna try being a bottom. I want to practice with a Dildo first before trying out with guys because i think its better that way. i wont have to stop the guy and ruin his fun just because i cant take a cock.

for my bday i bought myself a 40 dollar amazon gift card and got myself a really huge Dildo the brand was called xise its the 8 inch one but it was like 7 inch insertable it was really thick and really rigid. i could only get less than a inch in because it was way to rigid it was kinda scraping even with a lot of lube. the head of the Dildo was the worst the corona with the flared head was the hardest and very uncomfortable. i think i could probably take it if it was a little more softer. so i sent it back and got a refund (Gross that they do returns on dildos i know)

so with all this in mind. what do you guys recommend from amazon? has anyone purchased a Dildo from amazon and can give detailed of your toy? what im looking for is a silicone Dildo (no other materials because theyre not safe) thats soft and firm and the closest feeling to a real penis as possible. something like vixskin but thats way too expensive for me. something in my 40 buck budget
 
I can't give you a recommendation for a Dildo on amazon.
But I don't think you really want something with "the closest feeling to a real penis as possible".

First of all, nothing can replace a real dick. Because its warm and the man that comes with it, has its own will and pushes not as you wish,...

I think you want something to get ready for a real penis.
To train your ass to take a dick.
For this training you have to start very small.
Use your finger to get used to the feeling of something entering your ass.
Or if you don't like your finger, get a small buttplug.

I would recommend a small and a medium sized buttplug made out of silicone.
(don't buy the cheep jelly stuff)
When you practise with the buttplug you get used to the feeling and then you are ready for a real dick.
 
Leidenschaftlicher said:
I can't give you a recommendation for a dildo on amazon.
But I don't think you really want something with "the closest feeling to a real penis as possible".

First of all, nothing can replace a real dick. Because its warm and the man that comes with it, has its own will and pushes not as you wish,...

I think you want something to get ready for a real penis.
To train your ass to take a dick.
For this training you have to start very small.
Use your finger to get used to the feeling of something entering your ass.
Or if you don't like your finger, get a small buttplug.

I would recommend a small and a medium sized buttplug made out of silicone.
(don't buy the cheep jelly stuff)
When you practise with the buttplug you get used to the feeling and then you are ready for a real dick.
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i should have mentioned this. i do finger myself. i wouldnt say a lot but i do. and i dont like the looks of butt plugs dont look sexually pleasing.
 
It is not about the looks, but about the feeling.

Buttplug start very small, then getting bigger, they they secure in your ass, to get used to the feeling of something opening you.
Some buttplugs also do some pressure to your prostate.

Nevertheless, if you want to get a Dildo I recommend somthing with a small head, made of silicone and not too big.
Get a medium size and not a extra big one.
 
Tantus Silk seems to be good for beginners.

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Just bought new Falcon small butt plug to begin to train my ass.
 
I went to an adult store where I could see them before purchase. A lot of them have a sample of the material they're made of on the outside of the package, so you can feel how soft/hard they are. I did like you, the first time. Thought bigger was better. My first Dildo was the Jeff Stryker Dildo...yeah, my ass wasn't ready for that. lol!
 
It might be slightly above your price range, but I'd highly recommend trying the Kevin Warhol Dildo by Fleshlight. Kevin himself does nothing for me, but he has a very comfortably sized, smooth shaped penis. All the Fleshlight dildos are incredibly well made and detailed. I like to use it and fantasize about my first high school crush
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I think the lube you use can make a difference too. I use Swiss Navy water based lube (silicone lube isn't good for sex toys).

Hope this helps.
-Jason.
 
From my experience I recommend something with vibrations.
A vibrator or a vibrating buttplug.
 
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