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HELP: Straight but curious married man

bottomcurioushusband said:
Thanks for the advice so far...

To clarify, these felings have only been for a few months...but it has become obsessive...

On a second note...my wife and I are still together mostly because of the kids...not saying it is right, but it is true...

That said, I do appreciate the honesty in your responses...
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bottomcurioushusband said:
Thanks for all the comments...

I didn't see it as bashing or an all or nothing...everyone is welcome their opinion...I just had these feelings I can't explain after over 40 years of never even considering it...

I am confused by these feelings and not sure how to go about it....

That said, i never was considering going and cheating or telling my wife my feelings (although I may if the rihght opportunity comes up)...

Nor was I attempting to paint anyone here in a negative light...even though some
comments imply i did.

I am not selfish...confused...curious...and just trying to figure out what it all means...

Again, thanks for the comments all of you...it has my head spinning even if my feelings r just as confused as before asking the qestion...
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Yelp. Your situation sounds very familiar. My heart goes out to you. I wish you the best.
 
I think the whole I'm str8, but desire cock in my ass fantasy is great in stories and porn videos. In real life, you have to be very careful that it doesn't destroy your marriage. While I think it is important to explore your feelings and not surpress them, you have to make the decision if it is worth risking the loss of your wife. True that she may never find out, but you may decide to do it and then feel regret or remorse, or you may decide that you love it and in either case that is a risk to your marriage. I have a female friend who lets her husband go out and get fucked by other guys because she realizes that is something she can't give him. And a strap on is not the same thing! Now if he had sex with another woman, she would boot his ass so fast. If you feel that you can talk to your wife about your fantasies then I would talk to her about it and let that be the determining factor on what to do about it.
 
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