Help with my Friend

[donjulio]

dude,

Its not like you have to come out and say "Im gay". This guy in my opinion is doing everything in his power to make you see that he wants you. You, being in the closet and terrified of being "outed", are probably pushing him away in an attempt to cover up your real feelings. The sexual tension is building and you are going to ruin this friendship if dont take a better course of action. When you get together for a beer to talk next time, just tell him that you are "confused" or something and that you think you may have feelings for him. The guy sounds like he really cares about you so stop being a pussy. Ill tell you one thing, if you keep running off and pouting about shit he will get fed up with you. BE WHO YOU ARE!!!
Adversely, if you still cant do that, next time you guys get all fucked up and start wrestling or groping around, make a move. See what happens, maybe he'll be into it, maybe not...at least you can blame it on the beer....

One thing thats for sure, QUIT BEING A PUSSY!!

 

[bullwing413]

So, what's the latest on this?

 

[wilecoyote]

He has a fiance who is a great friend of mine.

This one sentence stuck out for me. Gay, straight, male, female, whatever, I don't get why anyone would possibly toss away a "great friend." If she didn't mind if you fooled around with him I'd say go for it, cause I'm all for 3ways and shit. But if he gets liquored up and plays grab ass with you behind her back, I think he needs to quit that behavior.
Seems like a situation where a couple of people will wind up hurt.

 

[yeahman21]

You need to have that conversation with him.