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Help with my 'School crush'.... :)

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Hi guys how are you? Im just loving this website, feels like a sweet & warm home.
So can you guys help with a crush I have? lol! :help: :-)

Theres this guy in class(im in college) named Chris. He is part Colombian and part many other things. He is well built and looks soooo ssooo straight. I just spend time in class staring at him than focusing in on the class. He catched ..me looking at him and I also caught him once or twice looking at me back. He's been noticing my starings. And when you stare at a guy...especially a guy...im pretty sure that they'd be pissed. Why would they want a boy to stare at them?

So anways, we talked a few times. So far it's been just Hi, whats up?, are you liking the class,etc...
We are usually always the last ones to get out of class. I wait so that I could walk and talk with him. To me it looks like he's been doing the same.
One day we had a test. I was the only one left in class, I took my time. He left before me. I finish the test, get out of class, go outside and OMG there he is!! He was literally waiting for me to come out because when he saw me get out he just started to walk off, pretending that he didn't see me. I start to walk behind him...he looks back knowing that I'm behind him...he says hi and stuff...we talk than go home.

Couple of weeks passed by now and I have his phone number. He's been txt messaging on the days that we have class together. Last week he randomly asked if we have a test on that day when he already knew the answer to it because 2 days before I asked the same thing to him, he was like ''no test this week''. Obviously he needed a reason to txt me and made up this question. lol

4 days ago, he txted me again saying he wont be coming to class and that he'll be bringing a sick note. Again a random text. Why tell someone that you wont be coming to class. We're not bff's or anything. lol.
On the same day I txted him saying whats up. He replied saying ''all good. who was in class? was the hot blond girl there?'' I was suprized because although he looks so straight the way he's been acting it made me think that he might be gay and may even be interested in me. It looked weird.. all of a sudden he's asking about this girl in class. Its like he noticed I might be gay and he is trying to tell me that he's straight.
I replied to him saying yeah the hot girl was there. See u next week!
Ugh... so frustrating! :)

Ok, thats it. I wrote a lot, sorry. Hopefully you guys like to read stories like this...I know I do.
What do you all think? Is he gay...possibly interested in me? Or Im just overreacting thinking he's gay because I want him to be. lol!
The class ends on December. So I have very little time left to make any kind of move.

I would love to hear any thoughts, opinions. :help:
Thanks a bunch! Xoxoo to all. :D (*8*) (*8*)
 
I wouldn't expect anything out of it. If he's telling you how he likes girls, then the guy likes girls. We tend to read into everything more deeply than we should. I had many occasions in college where I crushed on guys who later turned out to have girlfriends in passing conversations.
 
Are you out?

You're playing is he/isn't he, and interpreting everything he does to mean gay. Usually when someone is doing this it's because they have no concrete evidence that the guy is gay, but they really, really, really want him to be.

He let you know he was straight, accept it. Move on.
 
don't give up on this one, it sounds promising. text messaging is like foreplay for guys (in my opinion) be they straight or gay. Maybe the girl thing was a test or something, only he knows that.

I think you should try to hang out with him to get to know him better (get a better idea). you may even fall into one of those moments where the situation is perfect and someone slips on a penis (one can dream). but basically, I say pursue him. the worst is that he'll say he's not interested/gay. he doesn't sound like he's the kinda guy that'll fight about it. still be subtle, just in case.
 
HE may Be Bi or atleast Bi curious Idk just a thought
talk to him about girls maybe u can get a vibe or somthing from it
He may be testing you
who knows
but dont just ask him try to talk to him alittle more and see what he says
 
No don't pursue him, be friends with him fine, but he let you know he was straight. If you're any kind of friend you'll respect that.
 
Ahh thanks for all your responses guys. You're great.
So yeah I'll make a move to just be his friend for now. Like you all said, he did let me know he likes girls by saying or it could be a test like one of you said.
I'll talk and hang out with him. If he is straight, well so be it..not gonna get upset over it.

Will keep you guys updated. lol!
:)
 
aneal_lingus said:
don't give up on this one, it sounds promising. text messaging is like foreplay for guys (in my opinion) be they straight or gay. Maybe the girl thing was a test or something, only he knows that.

I think you should try to hang out with him to get to know him better (get a better idea). you may even fall into one of those moments where the situation is perfect and someone slips on a penis (one can dream). but basically, I say pursue him. the worst is that he'll say he's not interested/gay. he doesn't sound like he's the kinda guy that'll fight about it. still be subtle, just in case.
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haha youre cute. :)
Yeah he's definitely not like the type of guys who are hardcore/manly. When you look at him he seems that way(well built) but he is actually sweet and has a low voice. lol

Ugh thats like a dream...how I wish that would happen. :P
Anyway...I'll act straight for now and see where our conversation goes. (*8*)
 
Dude why dont u offer to study with the stud? That way u get to know him so much better!!
 
I say to heck with everybody up there except for aneal_lingus xD

What if you missed out on a great guy because everyone told you to back off and that he's straight? You come here for advice, not for people to tell you what to do...

So I'd take it slow and see where it goes...everything leading up to that text sounds 100% gay to me. Yeah, he might just be looking for a friend, but you can get a friend anywhere, you don't have to wait after class and hover around somebody. He probably wanted to see your reaction, so don't take the advice here as "gospel" or "fact" ALSO, if you tried to hit on him, and THEN he sent a text like that, it'd be different. Besides, gay guys can appreciate that girls "look nice", so don't be scared off.

So...try and drop hints, but the main thing would be to see if he checks out girls.<-This is key. Besides, texts are texts. You can't read too much into them, because they could mean anything. You need to "read" his behavior around girls and find out how homophobic he is...
The reason I'm so passionate about this, is I've used this to test guys before, so.... ;)
Good luck and I hope eveybody's wrong. In the end, it sounds like a good beginning to a good friendship! :)

(I wasn't trying to be rude, but people are always so quick to say, " Back off he's straight!")
 
allyigator said:
I say to heck with everybody up there except for aneal_lingus xD

What if you missed out on a great guy because everyone told you to back off and that he's straight? You come here for advice, not for people to tell you what to do...

So I'd take it slow and see where it goes...everything leading up to that text sounds 100% gay to me. Yeah, he might just be looking for a friend, but you can get a friend anywhere, you don't have to wait after class and hover around somebody. He probably wanted to see your reaction, so don't take the advice here as "gospel" or "fact" ALSO, if you tried to hit on him, and THEN he sent a text like that, it'd be different. Besides, gay guys can appreciate that girls "look nice", so don't be scared off.

So...try and drop hints, but the main thing would be to see if he checks out girls.<-This is key. Besides, texts are texts. You can't read too much into them, because they could mean anything. You need to "read" his behavior around girls and find out how homophobic he is...
The reason I'm so passionate about this, is I've used this to test guys before, so.... ;)
Good luck and I hope eveybody's wrong. In the end, it sounds like a good beginning to a good friendship! :)

(I wasn't trying to be rude, but people are always so quick to say, " Back off he's straight!")
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Ahh I love you. lol! :D
Everybodys response here does make sense but I love yours xDD. You've actually made me feel better on the night before I see him. We have class to and Im really excited.

I did observe him around others. And he seems to talk to a few girls in school but to me it looked like he's buddies with them. Also he doesn't have any friends who are 'guys'.(at least not around campus so it seems). Normally a guy with the looks of a jockey would have friends who are like him. I mean we see these kinds of guys all the time..

I'm remembering things as I write down. lol One day after class I was sitting outside, waiting for him. This was our 2nd conversation. He specifically came up to talk to me. He went like ''man the weather is great. I don't feel like going home''. Omg what guy talks to another guy about weather? I think he tried to invite me to hang out or something. I was so upset because I had work and could not hang out. So I missed a great chance like this.

Oh anyways I can go on and on...lets see what happens.
thanks so much for reading guys. Love you all. (*8*) :gogirl:(!)
 
Wow, people think just because you like girls your straight still?


I talk about hot girls all the time. I talk about hot guys all the time.
 
Well it's official. I have to stop obsessing over this guy. He was in class today and he totally acted like I wasn't there or we never talked before. Went home without saying hi or bye. I observed him and he really does check out this hot blond girl.

I have been kind of depressed because he is in all of my thoughts. It's real love I'm feeling. But I don't think it'll go anywhere...I must stop. :/
Maybe it'll change and something might happen but I can only hope.
 
I'm with a couple of the guys who said he might actually be into you. Often a closeted guy will back off if he thinks your interest might be indiscrete or that he risks being outed by your attention if it looks too strong. Maybe another explanation is he doesn't think your into him, so he is back into deep closet mode and ignoring you to downplay the interest he has shown so far, to play straight. Or maybe he's just straight. I have actually got a similar situation going on at the moment. I know from the way that this guy ignors me when others are around, like I don't exist and is chatty when they are gone. I think that maybe his colleagues think I'm gay and he doesn't want to look like he's fraternising with me when they are around. Does he watch you but pretend like he didn't know you were there. Can you feel a sort of tension around the guy? Like he doesn't know what to talk to you about. To me these are all signs of interest (my opinion) but if he's not ready he's not ready. Best to befriend him and like one guy said, offer to study together, if anything is going to happen it will in time, if not you got yourself a new mate.
 
I think that the guy likes you, maybe just as a friend, but he does like you. He wouldn't be making excuses to talk to you if he didn't. I think it's really cute. Just because he asked about the hot girl doesn't mean much either. He may be bi.

You should just ask him what he's doing sometime so you can hang with him outside of class. This guy seems like he could be a good friend at least. Once you hang out with him you can find out what he's all about.
 
It never hurts to make a new friend.

You never know; he may be straight but have a couple hot gay friends ;)
 
I would of said at the very moment when you got taht blonde text "idk i dont check out girls but i guess she is hot" or something of that sort, that would of opened your door totally and if he kept you as a firend or kept you as a boyfriend it would of worked out either way, if he does not talk to you becuase you are gay than you do not need him.
 
Thanks to all the repliers. You're all awesome. I still don't know what to do. Im just gonna go up to him and have a chat on Tuesday when we have class.
He doesn't know what I am though so there's no reason for him not to talk to me anymore. I have showed the same level of interest he has showed me. So if he thinks Im gay than I'll think like that too...what was the point of the things he did up til this day.

Whatever he is I am too basically...whether he's a friend seeker or a boyfriend seeker...I'm both of these things. lol! :)

This one is a real tough situation.
 
So...I have to tell you guys. Just came from class. He texted me before AGAIN asking me if we have a test. I was like ''no r u coming?'' He replied Yes. He came into the class and he looked at me said hi before sitting down. He only talks to me in class I noticed.
When class ended once again he got out before me and seriously he walked slow and looked on his back to see if I was coming. I did follow him and we chatted. Basically, same things happened. And I caught him looking at me today more than once. I've decided that Im gonna txt him tomorrow to see if we can go to a movie during the weekend. Should I? And do you think I should pay for his ticket? This'd me too much right?
He is definitely interested in me. If not in a gay way, just in a normal way and he likes me as a friend because he wouldn't be looking at me or talking to me if he wasn't. :)

I need suggestions again. This is a first for me. No experience at all. :D
 
I'm not sure if you should do the movies just yet because you won't get much a chance to talk. Are you old enough to drink? If you live near him you can just ask to hang out at his place or yours first and maybe watch a movie there or have some drinks. I'm just suggesting things I should have done when I was still in college. Hope it works out for you..
 
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