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[krisKums]

Hello im Kris
I have bottomed about 7 times now, I really really love the idea and the feeling of being under a hot stud, and feeling hes cock inside me. However, I cant seem to get over a burning sensation about 3 inches me its a curtian spot that always burns. No matter how much lube I use, my friend said I may be allergic to latex, but i dont thank so. Any Ideas ?

Hugs,
Kriskums

 

[hottie1982]

First of all will u bottom for me Kris?
But seriously, you may just be getting
use to being penetrated. If you keep
feeling this sensation maybe you could
check and see if your possibly allergic to latex. Also have you considered the lube your using??

 

[krisKums]

Yes sir, are you single?
I usally let my fb's supply the lube.
I like ky the kind that warms up as yo use it

 

[bretski40]

just an observation. the ky the warms is causing the burning sensation. try a non warming lube and see how that works for you.

 

[hottie1982]

Hey Kris, i have to agree with bretski
KY warming gel can do that. Try a non warming lube.

 

[KaraBulut]

Describe the sensation-

Is it a stretching/burning sensation like someone is pulling on your skin?

Or is it painful?

Does it hurt in the same place each time? Is it the kind of pain that you could point to one place or does it just hurt in a large area?

How long does it last? Is it just at first until you relax or does it continue to hurt for a while afterward?

 

[krisKums]

Sure thing, It feels almost like a cut that burns. It is mianly in one part of my canal. and the same each time.
thanks for you hlep
Kris

 

[krisKums]

I think i found the problem
just to tight lol
and when i get warmed up slow
i can relax
I thank heavy squats made my ass tighter than normal
becouse i sqeeze my checks togather when preforming them.

 

[KaraBulut]

The sensation you describe sounds like the stretching sensation of the muscles on the inside of your ass.

There are two sphincters- one external and one internal. Many guys who are not used to bottoming report a burning or stretching sensation. Often during foreplay, their partner is able to insert his dick part of the way in but then he feels resistance, so he pushes his dick forward to overcome the resistance. That resistance is the internal sphincter. If the internal sphincter is not relaxed and your partner moves too fast, then you will feel this stretching sensation as your partner's dick stretches the anal sphincter on his way to more pleasurable things that are further inside.

The anal sphincter is a muscle. During childhood, we are trained to keep this muscle tight so that we can control bowel movements. Anal sex involves retraining this muscle- much as you would train other muscles in the gym.

Solo time with lots of lube, progressively larger dildos and butt plugs will help you train your brain to instinctively relax this muscle instinctively during sex. If you have an adventurous partner, he can join you in your training exercises. What will help is if your partner will take his time and indulge in a little assplay with his fingers and lube. This will help you relax and be ready to accommodate larger things that follow.

If, after these exercises, you continue to experience pain,you might have your doctor check for hemorrhoids. They can be on the inside where they are not visible and they can cause the painful sensation you describe.