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Helping my boyfriend to loosen up before sex?

goldenmoth

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Hi,

I've been dating the perfect guy recently and we really want to have sex but he's so tight down there. Does anyone have any tips for how to help him open up a bit more?

I'm not too fussed if it takes a while or doesn't happen at all because I like him a lot but I think he really wants me to fuck him
 
If you're dating him it's time to stop "thinking" that he really wants you to fuck him and time the two of you communicate what you both want. At that point desire does some of the work. After that, it's foreplay, foreplay, foreplay and entire sessions with increasing goals. Sexy talk, encouragement, soapy fingers in the shower, toys of increasing size can all be helpful, but I'd advise to make this about seduction rather than mechanics. Sexy talk has always been effective with my husband.
 
goldenmoth said:
I've been dating the perfect guy recently and we really want to have sex but he's so tight down there. Does anyone have any tips for how to help him open up a bit more?
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In the Health forum, there's a Sticky thread called All About Ass that has discussion threads about how to work on relaxing the anus during sex.


goldenmoth said:
I'm not too fussed if it takes a while or doesn't happen at all because I like him a lot but I think he really wants me to fuck him
Seasoned said:
If you're dating him it's time to stop "thinking" that he really wants you to fuck him and time the two of you communicate what you both want.
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I'm going to echo what Seasoned said here.

If we were giving YOU advice on how to learn to relax when your partner was fucking you, it would be an easy process to point you to the tips on the H&W forum.

Since we're talking about you and your boyfriend and you don't sound to sure of what he wants, then that points to an issue in communication. Yes, it's awkward to bring up his butthole in a random conversation, but it's part of the deal. If after you talk to him about the issue and he says that he's up (no pun intended) for working on relaxing, it is something that you can both work on together.
 
Rim him good, then fuck him, then post the pics. ;)
 
try using toys on him first that will help make sure there is loads of lube and take ur time :)
 
Thanks, this is actually really good advice. Also, I wasn't aware about the topic in the health forum so I'll check that out right away!
 
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