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JASON0980

JASON0980

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i'm sitting here reading through all of my subscribed threads. there are 485 of them, they go all the way back to living in ohio before i had custody of my little sister. JUB holds more of my memories than my own mind does. I'm looking through some of the treads and i'm amazed at how naive i used to be. i feel like i have grow a lot since i joined JUB.

So now why am i back in this same ditch again?

So here's whats going on:
There is a guy who comes in the bar. he doesn't drink often and when he does he is a total light weight. i've been bar tending there for about 6 months now he has been coming in for 2 of those. he comes in every wednesday (on country night when i am the only bar tender) even though he hates country music. when he comes in on other nights he always sits at me bar. when he walks into the room i have to catch my breath. he is beautiful. i have always thought so.

there are a few catches though. he is going through something that he will only say is heart breaking. i am fresh out of a divorce (hell i guess you could say i'm still going through it). and there is the fact that he is very young.

if you were me what would be your next move?
 
To leave it be for now; sounds like neither one of you are emotionally ready to make the next step, and, it seems, you may not be that interested if age is a factor.
 
JASON0980 said:
if you were me what would be your next move?
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The next question should be, "my place or yours?"

So what you're damaged and going through a divorce. So what he's young. When in doubt, fuck. Go get your pickle dipped ffs!
 
if you were me what would be your next move?
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If I were you, we'd have already fucked.

Is this something that's going to happen? Or is it something that you want to happen so now it's going to happen?

Do your work, day in day out, let the drama sort itself out.
 
I tend to take sex slowly. Get to know each other, maybe you can help each other through the emotional stuff. When that's out of the way, you guys will have a wicked bond and the eventual sex will be even better!
 
i didn't go to work today because i have strep throat. i'm hurting hardcore right now. he went into the bar to see me, when i wasn't there he left. he called me on his way home to see if i was alright and offered to bring me soup. my ex is in the other room getting stoned, just like he did every time i was sick while we were together. and daniel is calling offering to bring me soup.
 
as stated in an ealier post just be friends first and see where it takes you
 
Well the soup thing sounds pretty sweet - really does.

Are you still living with your ex? Might help to end that situation asap if you are so you can clear your head and have some freedom. Not sure what your situation is.
 
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