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He's not talking to me

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OnlyBoyInTheWorld

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Hey all, hows it going? I'm not sure if I have this correctly worded but anyways I'll try to keep it as short as possible.

So basically I met this guy online, we started chatting for a few days and we organised meeting up with each other on saturday last week but he couldn't make it cause he had food poisoning. He did apologised that he couldn't make it. So then we organised another meeting up on the day after on MSN. We made all this great plans, but never get to where we are meeting up and time. He then told me that he's going to take a nap but will stay online. Few hours later I came back on the compt and he went offline, so I left him a text saying, ''text me in the morning if you still feel like hanging''.

The next morning I went to check my phone... no text. So I texted him but didn't get a reply from him the whole day. I don't want to be clingy, so I didn't send anymore texts after that 1.

My question is, is there a reason why he's not talking to me? Not even a ''sorry I couldn't make it today'' text. I haven't done anything bad to stop him from talking to me. I just can't stop wondering what the reason might be. Advices on how to approach this situation please? Thanks all!!!(*8*)
 
gingentleman said:
Sounds to me as though he has no manners at all, which suggests you should have nothing more to do with the jerk!
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If he has no manners at all, he wouldn't of have apologise for the day that he couldnt make it.

Please don't bother posting if you're going to write stuff like this. I need real advices on how to dissolve/approach the situation. Not some junk like this.
 
sixthson said:
Maybe he never woke up?
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That could be the case, or it could be that when he's awake I'm asleep. All this happened 2 days ago. But then he could always just leave me a text (Why didn't he)? I'm hoping that I'll hear from him today!! Thank you :)! (*8*)

More advices please!!
 
for online stuff there is alot of people who talk but dont walk the walk.. there are alot that are merely curious or just confused and hard to actually have anything in real life that is substantial
 
Unfortunately another game player. Just move past this one as this is normal among the online dating/hook-up scene.
 
It seems that some people make these quick emotional cyber connections and it's not something they are comfortable in the physical world or something they are not free to do due to not being free. You won't know for sure unless he tells you.

After two failed attempts I'd suggest giving him the message that he knows how to reach you when he has a plan in mind for meeting up and then letting go. It's too hard on your emotional life to be on a rollercoaster.
 
texan_slant said:
Seriously, I'd set my expectations low when it comes to anyone met online.
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Very much agreed. I've met some great guys online. Unfortunately, a large number of them end up flaking out.
I've learned to be skeptical even of the ones I DO end up meeting and liking a lot.

I would let it go unless he gets back to you, or maybe chat with him if you find him online.
 
OnlyBoyInTheWorld said:
My question is, is there a reason why he's not talking to me? Not even a ''sorry I couldn't make it today'' text. I haven't done anything bad to stop him from talking to me. I just can't stop wondering what the reason might be. Advices on how to approach this situation please? Thanks all!!!(*8*)
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There's probably lots of reasons. And reason #1 is that he's a dick.

The real problem here is that he's not being honest. Either he's doing the passive-aggressive evasion thing or he's got his own issues that he's dealing with. Neither is an adequate excuse for his behavior and until he is willing to be honest and communicate what is going on, you should not waste anymore time trying to make plans with him.
 
Heyy, thanks everyone for the advices but problem is solved! Well, kinda solved

I got a few other friends to try calling him and he didn't pick up as well, so I'm guessing that he lost his phone. I'm trying to get hold of him back on the website we met on, he should get my message the next time he loggs on. Thanks all again!(*8*)
 
(*8*)Hey guyss!!!

The ultimat truth is revealed! He was taken by ambulance and they didn't grab his phone while taking him and yes, it was food poisoning.... So scary! Thanks all again :)!
 
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