Hetero yesterday. Bi today. Gay tomorrow ?

[Multisquirt]

I'm 40 y.o.
I was 100% hetero six months ago. I'm becoming 100% bi...
I mean : I never have sex with men, but I'd like to try mutual masturbation with a hung guy, I'd like my expert fingers to make a big cock experience a long, raging orgasm, I'd make it get bigger and more pulsating and purple than ever (he'd moan like a dying calf) and spit copious, violent squirts of delighted relief all over my thankfully pre-cumming glans.
Am I gonna become gay ?

 

[2243]

It doesn't matter. Just be your-self, and be safe.

 

[hermanding]

could be if you start preferring that gay cock
ding

 

[conrad]

Recall that Kinsey found that nobody is 100? of any orientation. Be glad!

 

[blueto21]

Recall that Kinsey found that nobody is 100? of any orientation. Be glad!

Kinsey did not say that. That's a lie. According to Kinsey, the data that he collected from his research (which there has been much criticism over the validity of such research) indicated that most men are bi at differing places on the sexuality scale. But there are some people who actually are 100% hetero and 100% gay. I'm living proof that there is and there are many just like me. Now, it might make you feel better because you're bisexual (I assume that you are because no GAY OR STRAIGHT person would make a comment like this) to believe that everyone is bisexual but that is simply not true.

 

[conrad]

Blueto: Can it be that you never ever looked at a woman without any tiny bit of curiosity about her sexuality in relation to your own? Such singleness of mind and urges mystifies me. But then each of us is unique. So...enjoy!

 

[blueto21]

Blueto: Can it be that you never ever looked at a woman without any tiny bit of curiosity about her sexuality in relation to your own? Such singleness of mind and urges mystifies me. But then each of us is unique. So...enjoy!

I know this is going to be hard for you to wrap your brain around so I will try to be as transparent as I know how. I have no interest in the opposite sex whatsoever. Not at any time in my entire life have I ever been attracted to the opposite sex, sexually. Ever! I'm not curious about females and their sexuality. I have no interest whatsoever in what they do or don't do. And that's a tough situation to be in. But doesn't that mean all the more that maybe you should consider expanding your horizons and being more open minded than just this "everyone is bisexual" mentality?

 

[marbalk]

Lolito2243, you are right, be safe and later maybe you´ll find out, what you are looking for ........

 

[2243]

Lolito2243, you are right, be safe and later maybe you´ll find out, what you are looking for ........

Thanks...

 

[unclaimedblessing]

Life is a sexual buffet.
You can go through it sampling a little of this or a little of that.
You can be a vegetarian or you can try everything.
Do it which ever way is comfortable for you and screw the critics.
Don't over analyze yourself and don't let others do it for you.

 

[Lifesaver]

Honestly just go with the flow man

Up until two weeks ago I felt like it was impossible to let me desire for men and women to coexist. So many people have told me otherwise and I'm starting to see that it makes more sense to just let natural feelings flow

I'm a lot more relaxed about the whole thing lately

 

[Lifesaver]

good for you man, trust me it gets better with time.

Yeah I'm not gonna lie. I've been so set on being completely straight my whole life that in suppressing my desires for men I think I have also simultaneously suppressed my desires for women too.

Now that I feel more free a lot of desires for both sexes are flooding me

I know I appear pretty conservative on the outside but to be honest theres a ton of crazy shit in my head that I'm just itching to go for and try

Prrrrrrrrroblem is where I go to school that is NOT going to happen, I'm in the middle of nowhere

I'll have to see where the summer takes me

 

[tallguy297]

Am I gonna become gay ?

I'm pretty sure its not a sliding scale mate....

All you're doing is being honest with yourself. You are who you are... nothings going to change that... no matter what contact you have with who.

It'll just be that you are letting yourself be you...letting yourself think freely and express your thought and fantasies.

Dont worry about where it takes you just enjoy the journey and all the experiences that go there!

 

[conrad]

Take it from someone who has been on both sides. I still have the deepest love and affection for all of my sexual partners because they were my partners in committed relationships. All three of the men I have "known" (in the biblical sense) eventually married women. My teen "lover" is still my dearest male friend and a happily married man as I am. The two others are in long term committed relationships with men following short marriages. My only female partner, beside my wife, is also happily married. Although I have never cheated on any partner and would never consider cheating on my wife of many years. I do know that I am emotionally and sexually able to have serious relationships with men or women. That is why I will allow myself to be called bisexual. I have no desire or need to suggest that either homosexual or heterosexual love is superior. I do know that without the firm bonds of friendship/love the sex would not have been as great, memorable, and meaningful. Bisexual persons are no different from others---there comes a time when we make the choice to settle with one person and I take the "until death do us part" very seriously and I made the choice gladly.

 

[mario9]

Um... Whatever. I've been attracted to both sexes since early adolescence but I won't mind if I eventually go one way or another... As long as you're comfortable with yourself and playing safe, you'll be alright. Nobody's forcing you to label yourself. Just follow your instincts, even if they tend to change from time to time.