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I'm not saying he's going to specifically slash your tires, i'm just giving you a personal example of what can happen when you let a stranger know where you live. He can hurt you! You seem intent though, no matter what we say, on this happening so i just hope nothing bad happens to you. good luck
 
And please remember: This time everything may go fine, but the more often you try this, your risk of encountering a very bad situation increases.
 
And here it is the day of reckoning. And guess what?

He couldn't make it (yet). Got a work thing.

Ah well. I win none I lose all.
 
How long have you been chatting with him?
 
CSI_3Stokes said:
A couple of days at most.
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Then, yeah, I agree with the others about letting him into your house.

Not to scare you too much, but I was once told by an experienced leatherbear that having someone over to your place is the most dangerous of all. Why? Well, for reasons that people have already mentioned, but also this: If he does something nasty to you and leaves, no one will know about it until you go missing at work or school days later. OTOH, if he does something to you at his place, he has a body to dispose of. Big difference.

They say that you should always meet at a neutral location first, to scope the guy out. That often doesn't happen with horny gay men. But if you've been chatting for weeks or months, you hopefully have some idea of what he's like. Being that you've only chatted a few times, the danger increases significantly.

Are you a virgin? How experienced are you?
 
Lube said:
Then, yeah, I agree with the others about letting him into your house.

Not to scare you too much, but I was once told by an experienced leatherbear that having someone over to your place is the most dangerous of all. Why? Well, for reasons that people have already mentioned, but also this: If he does something nasty to you and leaves, no one will know about it until you go missing at work or school days later. OTOH, if he does something to you at his place, he has a body to dispose of. Big difference.

They say that you should always meet at a neutral location first, to scope the guy out. That often doesn't happen with horny gay men. But if you've been chatting for weeks or months, you hopefully have some idea of what he's like. Being that you've only chatted a few times, the danger increases significantly.

Are you a virgin? How experienced are you?
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I am a virgin. Not very.
 
CSI_3Stokes said:
I am a virgin. Not very [experienced].
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Well, take note of this guy's recent experience.

When he comes in your house, make sure you guys talk for 5 or 10 minutes about your lack of experience, your expectations, his expectations, and your limits. If he's willing to chat and listen to you, that's a good sign. If he just wants to get on with things ASAP, I'd be very careful. Not that he's going to kill you or anything, just that he's going to go for what he wants and ignore your needs.

You'll soon find that guys can be very selfish.

Good luck, and report back.
 
Lube said:
Well, take note of this guy's recent experience.

When he comes in your house, make sure you guys talk for 5 or 10 minutes about your lack of experience, your expectations, his expectations, and your limits. If he's willing to chat and listen to you, that's a good sign. If he just wants to get on with things ASAP, I'd be very careful. Not that he's going to kill you or anything, just that he's going to go for what he wants and ignore your needs.

You'll soon find that guys can be very selfish.

Good luck, and report back.
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Thank you. And will do.
 
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