Hi everyone!

[anthony87]

I found this site a few days ago and certainly enjoy it, especially this forum! It’s been a while since I’ve written in any kind of discussion forum, but this one seems to be very interesting indeed.

I’m 21 years old and live in Finland. It took me a long time to accept the fact that I’m gay, but now I’m totally comfortable with it, finally. I’m in the closet but I’m gonna tell my sister soon, maybe next week if I can just have a few hours of time to talk to her. My parents… well, when I feel like it. My family is awesome and I think they will all understand. I was planning to come out half a year ago but I just was not ready then. It's actually this forum that encouraged me to actually do it!

I’ve never been with a guy (or a girl, for that matter), I have absolutely no experience what so ever. I’ve pretty much ignored that part of my life and I have to admit that it feels like something is missing in my life; I’m quite happy but could be happier. I just don’t know how and when I’m gonna do something about it; I’m quite shy and all that. Anyways, just reading this forum has made me feel better, you people seem very nice so I know I’m gonna enjoy my time here. Thanks.

 

[dave_63]

Hello anthony87
to JUB!

 

[mike_n_herrin]

hi anthony

great introduction! sure hope you enjoy it here, most folks are very nice. have fun.

- mikey

 

[Bashful]

WELCOME!! That was a great introduction. I think you will find all kinds of support here on JUB. I hope it goes smoothly when you do decide to tell your parents. Have a good time here!

 

[shea]

Hey anthony come on in and get acquainted. This is a great place
to be. Have a great time here you sound like a good person.
shea

 

[RobertE]

Hey Anthony! I hope everything has turns out good for ya! Let us know how it goes.

 

[anthony87]

Thanks for the welcome everyone.

So I just called my sister, I will meet her on Tuesday.. and come out. Or at least I will try it, I'm not certain at all if I will succeed or not. We are close and she is very gay supportive so I know she would handle it well, but I just wonder if I can create the "right moment". And Tuesday morning, is that really a time when you can do that? Don't need to answer that, it's just me having second thoughts already while making this reply..

Oh well, let's hope I will succeed as I really would like to get that "out of the way", if you know what I mean..

 

[will_zeis23]

Hi anthony good luck on that situation. I hope everything goes well. Let us know how it goes!

 

[NineOfClubs]

anthony87, you made a great first step by joining JUB!

Welcome aboard, make yourself at home and enjoy yourself!