Introduction/ 1st Post Hi From The Netherlands

[Phantas33]

Okay, so, first of all, this isn't my first post but I said I would introduce myself properly...

My name's Rick, I'm 33 [turning 34 this July] and I live in Rotterdam, The Netherlands.

I'm 5'8" or 1m73 tall, weigh around 65 kgs [which is light] and have dark blonde to dark brown hair.

My interests are music, books, movies, tv-series, hot men.... I don't care much about cars, sports or politics.

I've been gay for a while, though it wasn't until I was 16 I think when it started to kick in. I've never acted on it though - I am a v.i.r.g.i.n. to this day. Yes, you read that right.
I came out to my mother 2 years ago... she told my dad, never heard another thing about it. Mom didn't take it too well at first but she's getting used to it, although still being at home kinda sucks.

I don't have a job at the moment, and I am not a bar-attending type... I feel uncomfortable to go at it alone, and I don't have any friends that are that type either. I have hardly any male/gay friends that live nearby too.

However, I try to fill my days with writing on erotic fiction [gay/str8] and reading good exciting books, listening to great music, watching fab movies/tv-series and spending time online.

So, I think that's me about covered.... Sorry if I sound whiney... I'm just not in a very advantageous position - if you wanna know why ask me/pm me and I'll tell you.

Hope to spend a little more time on here in the future

Love,
Rick

 

[beachboy69]

Hi, Rick welcome to JUB hope you have fun here.

 

[beachboy69]

I say one thing for you Benderboy , you are fast!

 

[gingentleman]

Hi Rick. Welcome!

 

[Falcon16]

Welcome to J U B Rick

 

[Rickrock]

Hi, Rick

My name is also Rick and I am retired and live with my father and a brother and sister. My mother is deceased. I have only recently come out to one friend, but I think some people have guessed that I am gay. I like to read, walk, draw house plans, go to plays, movies and dance programs. I used to go to clubs/bars all the time when I was younger, both by myself and with straight friends. I have travelled some and would like to travel some more if I can find the money. Occasionally I meet up with a cousin to see a movie or go to lunch. I've never been to the Netherlands. I've been to Europe twice, but probably won't get a chance to go back again.

 

[Phantas33]

thanks all, for the warm welcome! I'm still trying to get acquainted with this place... so if I don't respond immediately anytime, don't fret - just me getting used to it all.

As I've already received one chat request, I'd just like to add that I'd love to chat, but don't expect me to cut to the chase and get all horny on you straight away I only do that once I'm comfortable with someone or if we become friends on here... just fyi.

I'm also a bit of a poet, too... so I may start there and share some stuff I've written over the years. Only now really getting into writing gay-oriented poetry and gay fiction too.

 

[Scealle]

Hi
Hope you post some of your works in the forum soon
I always enjoy a good gay fiction

 

[Phantas33]

Hi
Hope you post some of your works in the forum soon
I always enjoy a good gay fiction

Well, I'm working on one at the moment, but I could post a chapter or two of that for now... not yet finished with the story itself.
I may post some poetry first though

 

[King Gumby VIII]

Hello
Welcome to jub.
Happy posting.

 

[Phantas33]

I seem to have forgotten to mention what kind of guys I'm into!

In terms of physical looks, I tend to like mature/older men, as well as hairy ones. I prefer guys that are 25+.
I'd kill to have a daddy once... but I'm still here nor there whether that would make a great boyfriend. I also fall for baldy guys, most likely if they sport a form of facial fur to go with it ^_^
Preferably not too fat, or too muscular.
Tattoos are OK, as long as it isn't overdone. Piercings I am NOT a fan of, though a small one in a not-so-conspicuous place [i.e. one nipple] I can live with. No noserings, tongue thingies and CERTAINLY no piercings in a dick. ugh.

I like dark haired guys especially, but i'm not too picky on that.

As for personality the guy should be friendly at least, and not too judgemental or crude. A sense of humour is appreciated, but don't expect me to tell any jokes as I'm not good at it lol. I can be quite cynical or sarcastic, but I don't get vicious until I'm annoyed BADLY.
The perfect guy should be touchy but not too clingy... and I dislike arrogance or any form of bragging.

Oh yeah, I'm also wondering if there are any other Dutch guys on here?

 

[Phantas33]

by the way, here's a more recent pic of ME... my avatar is an older one since it fits into the forum's rules.