His parents walked in

[Andreus]

i dunno guys....

ive heard a few straight men use the word bitch as a derogatory term for a gay man... especially older straight men

i tend to think its real, but i think the guy is also as turned on by the experience as some of the readers and is out of touch with the fact that he just participated in something that has changed three lives forever in a really negative way

that is what i was alluding to when i said that there were other things here at play

and besides....

this whole thread highlights a basic reality that we as gay men have a hard time coming to terms with....

while our sexual behaviors dont create children, they are nevertheless just as powerfull and life affecting in many ways for the people that engage in it, and often we dont respect the awesome nature of that power

we need to consider what our choices are and where they bring us....

whether the door was open or not.... the room it took place in.... ehhh

two people engaged in an act of intimacy and as a result they now have an intimate PROBLEM instead of a stronger relationship because getting off was more important than the bigger picture

so the bigger picture is now a messy bigger picture

one way or another no matter how casually we treat sex ... it will in the end become rellevant and life affecting.

 

[uncuttboi]

well........i think the ball is in the other coner---sorry--- if his dad is still letting his 'son' live at home still, I hope a calm discssion went on in his house and discssion some day you can tell your side to his dad too, dont forget your folks they WILL find out......watch your back.........my thoughts are with you It happened to me TOO.....it took a longggggggg time ( we) still fuck just do it on a deserted beach -just the birds know,,,,,,,,......

 

[G-Lexington]

You guys are violating a cardinal rule here - "never let the facts get in the way of a good story". Perhaps in the next installment, the guy can meet up with his boy-toy and the father, and then slowly turn the father over to their way of thinking...one way or another.

Lex

 

[Andreus]

You guys are violating a cardinal rule here - "never let the facts get in the way of a good story". Perhaps in the next installment, the guy can meet up with his boy-toy and the father, and then slowly turn the father over to their way of thinking...one way or another.

Lex

O^o

an incestuous three way

ewwww

 

[GL]

I'm almost sure I've read this same account somewhere before...

you probably have as there is an exact copy of the first post in the coming out forum.

i didn't bother to check which was posted first.

 

[Andreus]

perhaps i live in a different world than you guys but....

ive often balked

BALKED I TELL YA

at some gay mens innability to realize that some aspects of their sexual desires and recounts of them are out of touch with the concept of appropriate behavior

its like

gee the sex was so good that it doesnt matter how many things involved in the process are just unhealthy

a few cases in point....

have you guys read some of the nambla threads rambling around here?

how about the way in which people have absolutely no, and i do mean ABSOLUTELY, NO respect for each other when posting opinions which could have hazardous affects on other peoples psyche and health

well

like this thread, for example

 

[G-Lexington]

Mmm, that sounds hot, Andreus. Go on. But slower.

Lex

 

[Andreus]

Mmm, that sounds hot, Andreus. Go on. But slower.

Lex

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anyway

i hope the guy comes back and tells us whats up

 

[Andreus]

i believe the post is here because zeremonie suggested that he try this forum as well for some advice

 

[Nonimus]

 

[gabriel1]

Yes our resident Chav- total agreement

 

[Eagle653]

Ditto! When I saw this first hit the boards my first reaction was to role my eyes.

Then it was copied and posted as only a second post in the Coming Out forum, again with the naked icon, which in combination with the dual forum post would lead one to assume was to indicate some degree of urgency in reply, yet didn't stick around.

It also strikes me a bit odd in a couple of other ways, one, the emphasis to make sure we knew what "a big top" he is and how "femy" the boyfriend is, and second that this "heterosexual father" would use the word "bitch" in this situation, express such anger as implied, then "run outside" rather than physically throwing (or at least "escorting") the non-family member out of the house, or doing the same to the son.

I also find it dubious a 26 year old man asking for advice in such a situation would place so much interest in attempting to make the post sound saliciously titillating, then down play the trauma of the entire event for which advice is supposedly being sought by not discussing the actual fall out and merely making reference as the young man feeling "pretty sad".

Real world issues, but fictious story in this instance, say I.

Well, I merged the two threads--the one in Hot Topics with the one here. I'm with T-Zero this whole things sounds too far-fetched and titillating to me. Think about it, had this really happened, would your first instinct be to join a gay porn website discussion board and post about it with "Naked" icons? And, being in the Midwest, I can tell you that no straight father of an 18 year gay son is going to call his son's lover a "bitch." His hairdresser might, but there are more choice straight Midwest terms of non-endearment he would have used. Third, the 26 year old would have been hauled out of the house naked and thrown out the window. The "victim" would not have run screaming like a queen after his wife. Lastly, doors don't lock? People don't knock? C'mon! We weren't born yesterday.

Have spewed all that, it's a fun story for what it is. Maybe it should be moved to the Stories forum? LOL

 

[Ninja108]

SIgh... This thing seems more like it belongs in the story forum than in here.

 

[orton86]

WOW
Its gonna be a bumby ride for awhile
sorry

Was that supposed to be a pun? haha...

Poor guy. He hasn't come out to them and that's how they discover that their son is gay? I bet those parents are very emotional right now and I think you and their son should wait a while and give them some room to think about all of this.

 

[mabby7]

Hot story but I'm doubting that it's true since the OP hasn't posted again ... but I hope he does soon.

 

[Rick18]

What do you expect. You are dating an 18yr old kid. Still living at home with his parents. You are 26, what can you have in common with an 18yr old. I would be pissed too if he were my son......

Since the story is/probably is fake, I'll just comment on this. I'm an 18 year old living at home and dating a 28 year old. We have tons of things in common, television shows, video games, music, food, the same friends, and I almost went into the same major as he graduated from (before I met him). Not all 18 year olds are naive creatures who have nothing in common with people in their 20's.

 

[rareboy]

Bravo, Rick.

There seems to be some wrong headed idea that an age difference matters in a relationship. It doesn't have to.

 

[bluedragon4]

I could of believed it if he didn't describe what they looked like. No hot butch guy is gonna fuck/date some fem twerp.

 

[Jory]

Um so they "knew" what was going on but walked in anyway huh. Wow a SEVERE invasion of privacy with no chance to dress ones self, the parents could be charged in civil court.

Sorry to tell you this but it's their house, and they can go into any room they want at anytime.

 

[newkidondagayblock]

Hey have you guys the original "story" writer has not replied to any of this. what do you make of that?