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Hit on by classmate

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Maybe he's an empath. Or, he could have some sort of public touching fetish. Or, maybe he really is confused about himself and he's trying to connect to you in the only way he feels comfortable.
 
Maybe he has homophobic roomates and cant talk on the phone? why dont you invite him to lunch in/after class? If he is taking the chance of touching you he is trying to make a connection....
 
Agree with gotdimples...ask him to go to lunch or hang out somewhere just the 2 of you. Might be some issues where he is living!

I also agree that he is trying to make a connection with you by touching you.
 
Has it never occurred to you to ask him to join you for coffee or beer or something after classes?
 
Well when i was in school, straight guys would always hit on me. Ok, maybe i should rephrase, that didnt sound right. What i mean is they would always pretend to hit on me, hump my legs, feel me, ask me to touch their cocks, some even stimulate anal sex. It was nothing more then playing with the gay guy.
I suggest you go find out if he is gay first before you make a move. Ask him if he ever had a girlfriend would be a good place to start.
 
What a touching tale. He needs some verbal clarification of his behaviour, and obviously, so do you. I would deny him touch access until he responds properly. Lean away from him. Ask for a new seat assignment.
 
Pursuing him by phone might not work. Ask to hang out with him where it's just the two of you. Make it your house or somewhere where you know he won't feel insecure about himself. Then see where it goes.
 
I_Just_Blew_My_Load86 said:
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If I'm down, or angry...he seems to know, and will look over at me (one time, he even folded his arms, put his head on the table and looked over at me, and made a sad face (as if to say, hope you are alright, man.
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That's cute!;)
 
I would just ask him out for afew beers, after the lesson, in a casual way, and then just have a chat and find out a bit about each other socially and take it from there. Don't make a big thing of it, just afew beers, possibly invite others in the class and that takes the pressure off even more.
 
Next time you call, if you get his voice mail, say you need to get info about the latest assignment from class.

He can't refuse to call you back unless he's a total jerk. When he does, say "OK, that isn't really what I was calling you about. I just noticed that you're very physical with me when we sit together. Do you mean anything by that? Cause that would be great with me. Otherwise, just forget I said anything."
 
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