Holy crap... Maybe I'm reading too much into this but...

[trawler69]

Hey Name's sharing a bed with a girl is no big deal. I did the same when I lived where you are, somewhere up the Cowley road as I recall. I knew I was Gay, she didn't. I needed a bed for the night and she offered it. We slept together as friends, no sex just companionship, It was cool. She sounds like a good mate so go for it, what happens happens or what doesn't doesn't. No loss to you. You might even gain something from it like a new friend.

 

[trawler69]

Oh and by the way I have fingered girls and brought them off. It was nice to be able to do something for them but I could never eat pussy, that just turns me off.

 

[ComNavFdgPk]

Make up your mind. Are you "bi" or "gay?" If you're bi, sleep with her, fuck her brains out and have a good time. If you're gay, stop hemming and hawing about the whole thing and tell her that her 9-inches of fun goes in not out and you're not interested!

 

[Riverrick]

You're good friends, right? Then just tell her everything you've told us. Playing it by ear may mean that she will end up in the bed with you.

And frankly, if it was me and she got into the bed without any clothes on, I'd be totally creeped out.

 

[MadeUpName27]

When she snuggles up next to you and whispers:
"Names honey, I'm so horny..."

Hand her a dildo roll over and go to sleep...

 

[1st love ron]

This reminds me of a "girlfriend" that I had. She tried to "straighten" me out...didn't work. I wonder if that is what's going on here.