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home alone

Listen to Lex. He would not steer you wrong. Tlak to him. PM him with something about you. Maybe what you NEED is that gay hookup!
 
winterknight said:
My parents are in Italy for two weeks.

I'm home alone and feeling lonely as fuck :(
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Lonely as fuck?

I think you are quite confused there, pal. Fuck isn't lonely, as it requires two or more participants (at least one fuckor and one fuckee). You must be lonely as masturbate (which you can quite easily do single handed).
 
i've read your posts for several years here so i know a bit of your back story. what i have noticed is that while you at times do take some positive steps you have a tenancy to then take a couple steps back.

i think what you need to do is take one small step and maintain it. then take another small step and maintain that one.

one positive thing i can think about you is your art. that's really cool, but i've not seen you post anything new for a while with that. you also are a decent looking guy so you have that going for you too.
 
Head out to a club and find yourself a hot man. Bring him back home and have your filthy way with him. Always cheers me up.
 
mike_n_herrin said:
one positive thing i can think about you is your art. that's really cool, but i've not seen you post anything new for a while with that.
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That's because I haven't done anything with it since. All I ever did was work through a couple of tutorials on using the program, I never got the hang of it enough to actually try anything orioginal

Jayden said:
Head out to a club and find yourself a hot man. Bring him back home and have your filthy way with him. Always cheers me up.
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No clubs round here.

GL said:
if you were a smart man you would take lex up on his offer.
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Maybe.

But I have a hard job coming up with anything positive to say about myself, so I can't really get past step 1.
 
All I can do is send you one of these .... (*8*) and tell you that if I was in your neighbourhood I'd be happy to be your friend! :kiss:
 
It does sound like you have rather a defeatist attitude. No matter what anyone will suggest you will almost certainly reject the idea and come up with a million different reasons why it cannot be done.

Sometimes it isn't the situation we are in that needs to change it's ourselves. Until you decide to take control of your life and do something about your situation, nothing will change.

Sorry if it sounds harsh but if you really want to do something whilst your parents are away, why not just go out there and do it?
 
As long as you always will find an excuse NOT to do something, as long as you always stay in your "safe-zone".
Nothing will change.
Change happens because people dare and want to do something.
I don't see you doing either.
 
winterknight said:
Maybe.

But I have a hard job coming up with anything positive to say about myself, so I can't really get past step 1.
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you know something? only YOU can get yourself out of your self pity and self imposed misery. there isn't a damn thing wrong with you other than your incessant need to put yourself down.

GET OVER IT!

if you don't do it now you never will and you'll wake up one morning, realize you're 50 years old, still living at home and single. is this what you want? somehow i doubt it because you keep coming back.

DO SOMETHING! ANYTHING!

/end tough love.
 
I can find (and, in the past, have found) a million reasons not to do a lot of things. But you've gotta start not assuming that the reasons not to do things are always the superior ones.

Once, for whatever reason, you didn't listen to those voices. You got there. You got laid. Was it a 100% perfect experience? No, of course not - almost no experience is. But you had a lot of fun (from what I recall), and you probably learned enough to make your next experience superior. So shut those negative voices off and make a move.

Lex
 
Work on changing your attitude to something positive. It's not hard to have a good time and make friends and not be lonely...you just have to actually want to and put forth some sort of effort on your part. I agree with G-Lexington who said to make a profile online. If you actually try, you can find something positive to say about yourself. Any person in the world can.

Good luck, and all the best.
 
If you are 30 and have no friends, then my friend, you are missing the greatest joy in life. Friendships and the relationships you have with people are really what it's all about guy.

You could find a group, bar, church, whatever buzzes you or even slightly interests you and GO! Perfect time since your parents are gone for two weeks - you don't have to worry about them wondering where you are.

Meet people and find some really good friends - it's what life is all about - focus on them - ask them questions, get them to tell you stories about themselves, and I bet you are surprised at how interested they become in you!

You are the only one who controls your fate......don't be 75 and looking back wishing you would have made more friends! LIVE NOW!
 
Pick out a scary movie and pop a bottle of wine. Love doing that when I'm feeling a tad introverted.
 
Love being left alone, and to my own devices. Hehehehe. Think of the possibilities...

JIGSAWS!
 
Mikami said:
I don't know what you expect
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What he expects is a bunch of you to pay attention to him. A concerned audience may not be a remedy to his misery, but it seems to be some small consolation.
 
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