homophobic friend

[daydreamer27]

So you seem to be the prototype of the self-loathing, homophobe par excellence.
Closeted male bisexuals are the most malicious hate-mongers on earth to give us "out" people such a hard time.

 

[stripes]

I will say though some of the ( out ) crowd should have stayed ( in ) because they represent the gay lifestyle in a very poor light. I happen to like men as well as women>>>not women wanna be's...

nice to see you've progressed as a human being

 

[daydreamer27]

lol....first of all you didnt understand the post...I was saying I used to be that way.And second of all I am a male,I talk like one,I act like one,I walk like one and last of all I dont flaunt my sexuality. Anyones sexuality is thier own bussiness and is private. I will say though some of the ( out ) crowd should have stayed ( in ) because they represent the gay lifestyle in a very poor light. I happen to like men as well as women>>>not women wanna be's...

I think that so called "women wanna be's" are more worthy being called "male" than some middle-aged closeted male who never had the balls to even talk about gay people in a decent manner but, yet, judges gay people by their open behavior. I guess you should stay in your closet till you rot for kinds like you represent the "gay" closeted lifestyle in an excellent way.

 

[jaxon29]

Not liking gays or any minority is one thing, but the ranting and raving about them borders on hatred or perhaps self loathing. Most people live and let live. What sets this person off? Does he just start a rant on his own or did something happen with a gay coworker to start it. People like that have issues and I don't care to be around them. Sometime when you're talking, you could say "I used to be like that too, but mellowed and figure what the hell, live and let live". That's not divulging anything except you don't see any point in ranting about it. Maybe you'll eventually figure out what's bothering him, or maybe not. In the meantime, I wouldn't tell him about your bi side. Losing the friendship might not be any big loss, but since you work with him, that could get difficult if he likes to blab.

 

[daydreamer27]

This is susposed to be a bi-sraight posting area. Seems as though its only gays and thats ok.

oh no! one step out of the closet and already facing gay people on a gay forum's bi-straight section. Are you sure you're feeling safe here?
If you can't stand harsh criticism, then you should better post in the bi-talk posting area also called the bi safe zone.

 

[Soilwork]

Alas, not all homophobic jerks are closet cases... some are just homophobic jerks.

Good for you for moving past it, but don't be too sure of what you're seeing.

I always feel bad for guys who wasted the best young years of their lives when they could be out meeting people, having fun and enjoying their youth and sexual freedom. Coming out when you're older would suck.

That being said.. hey.. better late than never.

but It's probably not a bad idea for you to come out to your friend anyway.

At the very least it'll probably cure him of his homophobia.

 

[rahzael2006]

I believe that almost all men have some type of homosexual experience in thier life. Almost all the "straight guys" I've met were closeted. People put labels on things and before you know it they live thier life hating people for no reason. I believe that everyone should be who they are and not try to be a social robot.