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This thread has a real potential of getting out of hand because there will always be people who want to just go over the top. I will lay this out for you the best I can.
The reason homosexuality is called an "abomination" is because of the fruit it produces in your life. All sin is sin - and when Jesus died for our sins, He died for them ALL. Past, present, and future. His act of dieing on the Cross provided a way for us to live with Him throughout eternity. Someone shouldn't get saved because they are afraid of going to hell - that causes someone to "serve" God out of fear and not develop a true relationship.
If you look back and read in the New Testament - the Apostle didn't preach hell or preach fire and brimstone - they preached the benefits of the Kingdom (the benefits of having a relationship with Jesus) The point is that being saved and walking with Jesus in relationship is what gives you access to the finished work of the Cross and that grace that cancels all sin.
The reason homosexuality is an abomination in God's eyes, is not because it is "worse" than another sin, but the fruit is that is drives you further away from God and teaches you to relate to a man in a way that God never intended. A very LARGE majority (not all) of homosexual men, are men who grew up without the love of a father or father figure in their life. That hole in the heart MUST be filled - so we go out and go from man to man trying to fill a void that can't be filled in this way. This ruins our identification with a father - spiritual or natural.
So God is referring to the FRUIT of that sin, nothing more. It's basically like this: God says "I wish you wouldn't get involved with that. It will cause an even GREATER gap between you and I". Understand?
There are so many religious (not true Christians) people out there that have no clue what the love of God is - they are terrible, terrible people and have caused a rift by trying to separate homosexuals as being worse, therefore breeding even more rejection which is already a major issue in the homosexual lifestyle. It's like being kicked while down.
The truth is that God is nothing like what so many portray Him to be. He IS love and acceptance. He accepts people AS THEY ARE. There is no need to change to come to Jesus - we come as we are and He is confident that if there is an area of our life that needs to be changed, He will do it over time, in love, and with Grace.
Don't you know that Jesus also was tempted to be gay? The Bible tells us that He was tempted in EVERY way that a person could be; that means rape, murder, adultery, homosexuality, pedophilia, etc, etc. It had to be like this so He could have compassion and know the problems and burdens we carry. When He looks at any of the people on earth, it is through the eyes of love and compassion - not fire and damnation.
He does require that we try our best and do our part to live a life that is representative of Him and His Kingdom - so that means if we have the power within ourselves to stop doing somethings that are sinful in nature, then we need to do that. But our salvation is not based in anyway on how "good" we are or how good we "act". It is all by His grace.
That's my $.02 worth.
That was a very helpful two cents, thank you very much. It really does make me more positive to know that I'm not rejected by god.
Unfortunately I can't relate to the father figure example. I have a great father. He's always been there for me, always supports me in what I do, and things I don't want to do. He forced me to play baseball when I was little, but after about 10 years of his pressure i finally told him I wasn't into baseball at all. He understood and was okay with it. When I told him I was really into making music and maybe being a musician as my career, he encouraged me to go to concerts and everything haha.
He's great, but tied down by the ignorant teachings my mom spouts to him. He doesn't listen to a lot of giant religious people with a lot of influence (besides billy graham.) He's very dependent in his believes and studies the bible thoroughly. My mom on the other hand is awesome and loving, but is seriously brain washed by radio personal like James Dobson. It's depressing to see.
I have great parents, I don't need to find a male to fill a hole. (well haha maybe a couple holes)
What really stood out in that documentary was that by abomination they meant nontraditional. It wasn't traditional because the jewish were called to only procreate. (Like said in the documentary, that guy got executed for jizzing outside the vagina, and it was also against tradition to eat pork.) It really does make sense, why would god detest one of his creations.
Sorry if I'm long winded haha


