Hook up again - how?

[Narvin]

Er I bottomed for a guy off Grindr yesterday.. a 21 yo who needed a quick fuck. I liked it and really want to do it again. How do I let him know, and how do I find out if he's interested in topping again? (Sorry, if this is a weird question..) He got hard easy and seemed to like it cause he came quick. I was real tight and he might have been a little worried about getting caught since it was day and we were in the woods by a walking trail. Btw, I was a little late and he was actually about to go. I caught him just in the time and he seemed a little concerned about the place but went along.

Anyway what do I message him? How would YOU message the guy..He's like a 7.5 maybe 8 out of 10. Me 6/6.5 slightly above average kinda?...I was waiting on him to send a message about meeting up again, maybe leaving a door open sorta. Still nothing yet. He sent the last message saying he was in his car there. Wish I knew what was going through his mind. Do I message him something like 'nice/good fuck man'? Or something else? Idek if it was a one-time thing. We did a little awkward small talk going through the woods and back...probably sucked at that. Would it matter if I said nothing until I was free to hook up again? How would I play that off? Simple 'heyyyy' or 'you free?' after not messaging him for a while? I don't want him to think he sucked just cause he didn't last more than a minute...Seriously what do I do? I have asperger's and can't read people that well. ANY thing in particular I should not do that'll ruin my chances??

 

[TX-Beau]

Sugar Pie, if he's just a trick don't worry about what't in his head, that's not what you're after.

You're on Grindr, wait a few days, then message him that you're horny as fuck and had fond memories of the way he plowed your backside. He'll either be over in 15 minutes or you go fishing for someone else. That's kinda the point of a hookup site.

The cardinal rule of the hookup, everyone is responsible for their own orgasms, and no one cares if you've had a bad day.

 

[Narvin]

Sugar Pie, if he's just a trick don't worry about what't in his head, that's not what you're after.

You're on Grindr, wait a few days, then message him that you're horny as fuck and had fond memories of the way he plowed your backside. He'll either be over in 15 minutes or you go fishing for someone else. That's kinda the point of a hookup site.

The cardinal rule of the hookup, everyone is responsible for their own orgasms, and no one cares if you've had a bad day.

Wait a few days then proposition, got it. Could work.

 

[eastofeden]

If you want to just fuck...don't tell him you have been thinking about him...or wondering when and where you can meet again....

If I were in your shoes...I would say "Hey...loved the fuck. You know how to reach me if you get horny again"...then TRULY let it go. If he rejects you or doesn't respond...let it go.

Rejection is the same coin as acceptance and it is not at all bad to be rejected or dismissed. It is what it is and the people who get that are way ahead in the game of life. Be one of those people

Keep it short and sweet. No strings....and keep the rating system to yourself. It isn't attractive.

 

[Narvin]

If you want to just fuck...don't tell him you have been thinking about him...or wondering when and where you can meet again....

If I were in your shoes...I would say "Hey...loved the fuck. You know how to reach me if you get horny again"...then TRULY let it go. If he rejects you or doesn't respond...let it go.

Rejection is the same coin as acceptance and it is not at all bad to be rejected or dismissed. It is what it is and the people who get that are way ahead in the game of life. Be one of those people

Keep it short and sweet. No strings....and keep the rating system to yourself. It isn't attractive.

Okay, keep it cool and subtle. Let it go if rejected for some reason. Keep rating system to self, it might put some guys off.