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hooked up with a straight friend...unsure what to think of it?

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im a closet bi and he happens to be one of my really good friends and also my room mate. this is going to sound strange at first, but here goes:

my friend admits that he does strange things while hes on ambien, and of course, ive witnessed them, given that hes my room mate. while he was on ambien last night, we hung out. i thought it was strange that he would stare at my lips for a long periods of time while we were conversing, but i shrugged the thought since hes on ambien. later on, i took an ambien that he gave me and we both started having some beers and having deep conversations in his room. at the end of the convo, we gave each other bro hugs and told each other "i love you man, no homo". during the bro hug, he gave me a peck on the cheek. i didnt say anything about it and pretended it didnt happen. later on, he was showing me something on his cell phone, then i realized he was getting really close to my face and it seemed like he was getting ready to kiss me. i backed off, and i told him "what are you doing? are you trying to kiss me?". he then told me "i wanna kiss you". i was shocked. to make sure i wasnt hearing things, i asked him again what he wanted to do, and he said the same thing. right before we hooked up, i asked him twice if he was bi, and he said yes each time. then i asked him twice if "this is not going to affect our friendship, is it?" and he replied both times "no its not".

im still a little bit at shock, i mean, he hooks up with chicks from time to time and hes had girlfriends in the past. quite frankly, i really dont think hes bi, prolly bi-curious the most (even though he did ask me to penetrate him, which i didnt). i can leave this fling behind and not let it strain our friendship, but im not too sure if he thinks/or feels the same way i do, let alone if he remembers what happened last night. i havent gotten a chance to see him today since he works long shifts throughout most of the week. now, is it best that i dont say anything unless he brings up the topic?
 
I would leave it alone and leave the ball in his court for now. From your description of him I doubt you will have to wait long. The best thing for you to do is figure out how far you want to go with this. I don't know much about Ambien, so I can't suggest that it was just him being high, so if he does want to talk about it make sure you guys do it sober.
 
ive heard that ambien can act as a truth serum or an aphrodisiac, but then again, one of the side effects is acting strange.
 
A piece of good advice: don't take medications from other people. You had absolutely no excuse for accepting an Ambien from him. Dumb move--unless you are a druggie, of course.
 
Hmmm...something is not right about this story. I took Ambien from time to time. I usually fall asleep within 2 to 4 minutes for 3 to 4 hours. I know 4 different people with insomnia also experience the same effect. You guys took Ambien and drank beers??? There's no way you two were awake enough to have deep conversations.

What you guys took ain't Ambien.
 
HunterM said:
Hmmm...something is not right about this story. I took Ambien from time to time. I usually fall asleep within 2 to 4 minutes for 3 to 4 hours. I know 4 different people with insomnia also experience the same effect. You guys took Ambien and drank beers??? There's no way you two were awake enough to have deep conversations.

What you guys took ain't Ambien.
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^ This never a truer word , especially taking with booze . Also taking another persons prescription medication is one huge no-no .
 
I take Ambien nightly and can say that I have done things that I don't remember doing til I look at my phone texts or pics. so ya it is possible that he not remember all the details. I wouldn't say anything at all to him until he brings it up again.
 
I thought Ambien was a sleep medication, something to knock you out, not something to get high on and throw a few back on. Not ever having taken drugs stronger than tylenol, asprin and the like, i have little to go on but why take something that may make you act loopy and all, may reason i've never been tempted by street drugs and alchol.

Anyhoo, i wouln'dn't bring it up, wait for him to, as he seems a little lost in life and may just want to "forget" what happened.
 
Hypnotics and booze together, for shits and giggles. What could possibly go wrong?

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Should i be the one to put moves on him next time? I mean i do find him pretty attractive lol. How should i probe about his sexuality? And btw, we just acted like nothing happened and we dont even feel awkward being around each other
 
Maybe you could drop some "Ambien" and go for a ride.....Seriously though, ditch the drugs and enjoy good, clean, hot sex. There's nothing better. The ONLY drug you should take for sex...(under the advice of a dr) is viagra...if you need it. Keep it legal and clean and safe and enjoy it for a looooong time.
 
Since he is your roomie how far do you want it to go and how much do you value your present friendly relationship? It could change if you put tempation in his way but do you want it to ? Problem is you cannot put the genie back in the bottle once it is out :) Step carefully !
 
shadowfang156 said:
Seriously though with all druggie jokes and use aside, what should i do?
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Unless he brings it up or unless your relationship seems like it has been adversely affected, you would be better off forgetting that it happened.

On the other hand, if the relationship seems like it has been damaged (in spite of the protests beforehand that it would not mess up the friendship), then you're going to have to have a talk about it and what the relationship will be moving forward.

And- I would be remiss if I didn't say this- never take Ambien unless you are having trouble sleeping. It is not a recreational drug and it is not intended to be taken routinely. And never, never, never, never take it with alcohol. We've seen more than a few people who have overdosed on what would be a routine dose of sleeping pills when combined with alcohol.
 
Our relationship is the same thus far...nothing has adversely affected it and he hasnt brought it up...so youre saying i should make a move???
 
I assume me has fragments of what he remembers just as i do. On the nights when we took ambien for recreational use, he says he doesnt remember but after he thinks about it, he does have sone memory which is why i assume he ge fragments of it
 
shadowfang156 said:
ive heard that ambien can act as a truth serum or an aphrodisiac, but then again, one of the side effects is acting strange.
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shadowfang156 said:
Should i be the one to put moves on him next time? I mean i do find him pretty attractive lol.
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shadowfang156 said:
Our relationship is the same thus far...nothing has adversely affected it and he hasnt brought it up...so youre saying i should make a move???
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Seriously? What are you reading??? Everyone here is telling you what an incredibly stupid thing this is, and that you should NOT be doing this. But for some reason, you're only reading what you want to see. Why even start this thread if you already made up your mind.
 
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