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Croft85 said:
What do you like the south? What I meant was if I have a connection with a guy I would hook up with him
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'Right guy' sounds more like someone looking for a romantic relationship. You might be better off using something along the lines of ' someone I'm compatible with'.
While I totally get that you're looking for a LTR I don't know if it's a good idea to have it on your Grindr profile. My understanding is the app really isn't used for dating. If you happen to find someone that wants a LTR, great! But I don't think you're going to get either a lot of hits for dating or a lot of hits for sex if you prioritize that on Grindr.
 
i am 49, bi curious. How do i hook up with man on internet without looking like a perv?
have no experience.
 
Croft85 said:
If he didn't like me then why did he like me first? I got a notification saying he liked my pic so I liked him back then he sent me a message insulting me.
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I don't know how Surge works, but I wonder if he just liked a bunch of profiles without looking at them just to see who would respond. Once he goes responses then he looked at the profiles.
 
Croft85 said:
Sorry I for got I add some info in I live in a small town in Alabama. The nearest gay hangouts are like and hour and a half away but with no car or public transportation I can't go. But so far the people on the apps are just rude. I see a guy I like and I say "hi, hows your day going?" Then they block me and the ones that do talk are not willing to come over.
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Get a good job Leave the south where many times tehr are homophobia get a job in a major city things will be different!
 
Are all guys are assholes online? I met a guy on POF turns out we are friends on Facebook. He said I was cute. We have a lot in common then he just stopped talking me both on POF and Facebook. And I get a message from a guy I met at a store he found my profile we start talking thing are great but I asked him out and he said on not interested. Then why did he hit me up first? And flirt with me? FUCK ONLINE DATING! *%%*
 
So this guy is talking to me that's great but it got me thinking he would have to come here to me and he's ok with that but I live with me mother she moved in with be can't live one her own. She would be ok if I had guys over for hookups but it would be weird any advice?
 
Croft85, I have NO idea how to hook up with a guy. I have been trying my own self for yearss now. Love and Luck-to you Sir. :)
I hope you find someone fun :)
 
So I had the opportunity to hook up with I a guy. But I couldn't go through with it. Im to worried about STDs. I don't see how people do it.
 
If a guy doesn't have a profile picture then I won't ever message them, and if they message me I will ignore them because it's pretty damn rude to read "NPNC" on my profile and then not send a pic and expect me to chat.

My advice is to put a fair photo of you up, recent ones. guys will see that and think you're confident.

and if you can't host and they can't host, you could meet at a bathhouse. It's a lot safer than most other beats, as long as you know how to not let someone pressure you into not using a condom.
 
Try having these:

1. Profile picture. If there's an option to include more photos, have at least 3-4 photos with no sunglasses, clear face shot and body shot (in just your everyday wear).
2. Fill out a bit about yourself in the info.
3. Reach out to others first - if everyone has the similar mentality of just waiting for the other person to talk to them first; then no body would ever get messaged. If they reply back that's an awesome first connection, if not - onto the next! :) (repeat this step as many times as necessarily).
 
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