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Hookup in nightclub gone wrong

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hey everyone.

so last night i was out nightclubbing with some friends of mine (gay friends) so we were at gay night clubs, anyways me and this guy were having fun dancing drinking just generally getting trashed, it was awsome, anyways then im not exactly sure how it all went down but it ended up us in the toilet him giving me head, (we got kicked out too btw)

anyways when he was giving me head, i was hard but not really fully hard and he went at it for a while but i just couldn't cum, keep in mind this was my first ever blowjob. but i dont know, it felt awsome but i just couldn;t cum, i dont know if it was nerves or if i was just so drunk that i couldn't concentrate?!?

so anyways ther worst part is that this guy has a boyfriends and now i feel hell bad about it happening.

anyways i think i really just needed to vent and ask for advice??

any help :-)
 
You weren't the one with the bf. You weren't the one who fucked up the relationship. Enjoy it for what it was.

I wouldn't do it again if you can help it.

A lot of guys don't get off from head the first time.
 
Trashed and nervous. That's why you could cum. BTW, alcohol, as you know, lowers inhibitions.
 
Forget about what happened.

Next time, don't get so trashed that you end up in the toilet of a club having sex.

And step back and take a look at how much club drama is beginning to play a part in your life. It's not healthy.
 
you werent the one who cheated, and you couldnt cum because of alcohol and nerves. no big deal, weve all been there.

just try to not get kicked out of clubs... thats a sign that you took it a little too far this time.
 
Many couples have an open relationship, therefore he may not have been cheating. If he was cheating, it's not your fault as you didn't know about the boyfriend.

Don't worry about not cumming. It could be a combination of what you said and the environment. A bathroom in a club isn't exactly romantic. Also, some guys aren't that good at giving head. Look at it this way, at least you know that premature ejaculation isn't a problem for you.
 
It's not like you knew if he was in an open relationship or not, or maybe you didn't even know at that point what his situation was. Still, it's best to avoid having sex in clubs, unless they have a designated 'area' to do that kind of stuff in. But hey, calm down, you sound like you are having normal, healthy, young fun. It's part of gaining experience. A lot of guys can't come from getting head, especially if they're drunk and a bit nervous.
 
big deal. nobody cares. you need more parenting, not advice from strangers.
 
it was awsome, anyways then im not exactly sure how it all went down but it ended up us in the toilet him giving me head, (we got kicked out too btw)

Somehow, I'm failing to see how this was awesome.

And I think your dick was telling you it was trashy and meaningless as well.
 
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