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I had a guy over last night who was pretty good looking. We chatted for a bit and then we start making out and when I was about to take off his shirt he tells me "I think I'm going to go" :? He told me that it wasn't me and that he doesn't do this often so he put his coat on and everything and just left. Do you think that was BS and it was something with me or is that normal in the hookup world? This has happened to me several times so far, once last fall, once last spring, and last night where the guy just left. I'm feeling self conscious about it now and I didn't get to :sex: last night *%%*
 
Did he have much experience with hooking up? Maybe he was just nervous about doing it and freaked out.
 
I don't know. I'd have to know more about the guys.

Assuming that you shower and shave and are well groomed and don't wear cologne and don't have halitosis and that you are a good kisser, I can't think of why some guys bail....except that if you are getting guys (bi's or homos) who are closeted and inexperienced...it isn't unusual to have them choke if they suddenly panic.

We'd need more background on the types of guys you are hooking up with.
 
Maybe he wasn't really free to be hooking up and he got control of his temptations just in time. Or a lot of people are no good at hook-ups even if they are unattached. Or they are tempted by them but in reality they want more and he had to actually get face to face with the situation before he figured it out. Or maybe he felt like having a sexy time but he wasn't feeling well.
 
Premature ejaculation. You're too damn hot for your own good.



Or was there a wet fart you're not telling us about?
 
Did you smell good all over? Maybe he realized the chemistry wasn't right.
 
Had he seen what you looked like before you met? I've only done this once where a guy I met looked nothing like his pics. He apologized for this as soon as I came through the door so he was obviously conscious about it but had chosen not to mention it until he actually had me in his lair. He convinced me to make out with him but before we got any further I stopped and more or less left immediately. It wasn't his looks that were a turn off it was the fact that he felt he had to manipulate people to have sex with him.
 
A straight guy came over once because he was stressed out about his girlfriend and other life problems, and he then told me he changed his mind and didn't want a blowjob, but talked for awhile and I never saw him ever again.

Totally shitty to be so close and then they get up and leave. Must be nerves or change of heart or something.
 
I had a hook up come over a couple of weeks ago who was turned on by the fact I lived with my parents and they were upstairs. I thought it was going to take a police man to get him to put his pants on and bugger off lol.

I've had it happen to me, and I've done it. Changed my mind because reasons. It's not always about the person I'm with. Mostly it's about that voice in my head that says "What the fuck are you doing dude, go home."
 
I have heard a lot of guys tell me after AIDS came around that they "changed their minds" when they were about to have sex with a guy if he wasn't "hot enough"....and went on to sometimes justify it by saying that if they were gonna take a chance on getting AIDS...it would have to be "worth it"...

It was shocking to me every time I heard it...I had to train my face and my eyes to not reveal what I was thinking...

I don't know if this was the case with your guy or not but since you said it has happened multiple times...I submit this for your consideration....

I also heard that if the guy's dick wasn't "big enough" they felt it wasn't worth taking a chance...EEK
 
i think your breath or you were oozing a bad body odor
 
Every human is different. If he apologizes and leaves and says it's him, believe him. Unless this happens to you on a regular basis, there's no reason to assume you're the problem.
 
rareboy said:
Assuming that you shower and shave and are well groomed and don't wear cologne and don't have halitosis and that you are a good kisser, I can't think of why some guys bail....
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...this is bad?

I always wear cologne...

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blackbeltninja said:
...this is bad?

I always wear cologne...

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It may or may not be.

Scent is so highly subjective....and one person's favourite cologne may be another person's absolute turn-off. My advice? Always go freshly showered after using unscented soap and shampoo (unless the Hook-up is a declared scent pig), smelling only like you.
 
Bad breath?

My boyfriend and I have made a pact with each other. If my breath ever stinks, he will tell me right away so I could fix it. If his breath stinks, I will tell him right away. It's called constructive criticism.
 
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