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How affectionate are you?

How affectionate are you?

  • I can cuddle all night, every night

    Votes: 28 53.8%

  • I can cuddle in front of a movie, but not while sleeping

    Votes: 15 28.8%

  • I enjoy an occasional xoxo

    Votes: 3 5.8%

  • Don't touch me!

    Votes: 6 11.5%
  • Total voters
    52
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I haven't dated too many guys, but even then, they seem to spread across the entire spectrum. It seems like I can never get/give enough affection. I can never cuddle enough. So I'm curious to know if I'm unreasonably affectionate, or just very =)
 
I love to cuddle, but sometimes it does make it hard to get to sleep if the position is weird or something.
 
On a scale of 1 to 10, I'd say 7 or 8. My ex and I used to fall asleep on top of each other all the time. I think it depends on how you feel about somebody. Some guys aren't that affectionate.
 
Wow. I would've expected the percentages to be more like 20%/40%/30%/10%, based on my limited experience with guys. I guess JUBers are just more cuddly and affectionate =)

I agree though, that a lot of that depends on chemistry. Even though I can never cuddle enough with my boyfriend, there are some guys that I just can't really cuddle with. It seems like the puzzle pieces just don't fit...
 
Hmmm. I think that pretty much any guy who's in love with you is going to be cuddly at least occasionally.

I can't sleep with someone all over me. Plus it gets annoying if someone wants to be on top of you all the time.
 
It depends on my mood. Sometimes, I'm more cuddly.... sometimes, I'm like "roll the F over I just want to sleep!"

It also depends on the guy - some are more affectionate than others. I've been asked to be more affectionate, I've been asked not to be.... everyone's different.
 
TX-Beau said:
Hmmm. I think that pretty much any guy who's in love with you is going to be cuddly at least occasionally.

I can't sleep with someone all over me. Plus it gets annoying if someone wants to be on top of you all the time.
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Especially if he's sleeping on top of someone else....:badgrin:
 
I'm very cuddly and I'm not interested in guys who are not affectionate. I get a sense very early as to how affectionate a guy is and only pursue affectionate ones. I love to hold a guy all night long except I can never sleep then but hey who needs sleep when you have cuddles :-D
 
I can't cuddle with someone while sleeping, it's just really uncomfortable for me, but any other time....
 
I love to cuddle, but it's kind of hard to get comfortable in bed....voted for the second option as a result.
 
I couldn't cuddle all night long is because I know I toss in my sleep. I dunno if it is just the mattress but it was something my ex-es always said to me.
 
The issue with spooning/cuddling is I resemble a Hurricane while I am in bed.

No one would get a good nights sleep with me trying to break free and him trying to hold on.

Pure Debauchery.
 
Even though I feel like I can never cuddle enough, I also find it uncomfortable sometimes to cuddle all night, with some guys. But with others, I can cuddle all night no problem.

I imagine part of it is the emotional attachment with the other person. But I also wonder, if physical compatibility plays a big part. It seems like, to spoon someone comfortably, the two of you have to be the right size/proportion so you can lock together nicely like a puzzle =)
 
I'm not overbearing but I could cuddle every night. I will usually fall asleep separate from whoever is in bed with me (that was not meant to sound slutty).

I may be a little more affectionate than "normal" since I don't PDA I can't wait to wrap my arms around my guy when we are alone. :)
 
I'm pretty affectionate when I really like a guy. I'm a romantic. :p Sue me.


Definitely not clingy though and value personal space, lol.
 
I'm super touchy-feely with guys. For a while, I didn't even want to have sex, I just got off on cuddling.
As you can imagine, this becomes a problem if it drags on!
 
I wanted to spoon with a guy after his parents were away, but we just kind of rolled around in bed and slept apart lol. It's fun in the moment, but hard for me to sleep like that. I prefer a pillow :p.
 
trikky said:
I'm very cuddly and I'm not interested in guys who are not affectionate. I get a sense very early as to how affectionate a guy is and only pursue affectionate ones. I love to hold a guy all night long except I can never sleep then but hey who needs sleep when you have cuddles :-D
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This brings up an interesting question... for those affectionate ones in group 1 ("I can cuddle all night, every night"), how important is it that your partner is also in group 1? Would you choose to be someone who's in group 2? 3? 4?

I don't think I can be with someone who's a 3 or 4, and I'm not sure about 2... (Though one of my ex's is a 3, and I did tolerate it for 5 months...) To me, affection is VERY important, and I love it when a guy wants me to hold him, or snuggle up with him, all night long. Falling asleep with my boyfriend with his head on my chest, my hands around him, is the best feeling for me, really. I would feel like everything is perfect...

And then, I can't help but wonder, if this is just silly... if my judgment of a guy is clouded by how affectionate he is, and if I should be more rational...
 
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