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how and where u get your boyfriend ?

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how and where u get your boyfriend ?
i just dont know why i already 18 year old and near to 19 this year, still havent get a boyfriend. even first love , still havent starting...

no man come the ask me " can you going out with me'
i think i'm isnt unlikeable , but why no man come to know me...
 
i met my boyfriend through my ex. we talked on the phone for 6 month's and then we met, all the while i was with my ex. we hit it off. we are now on 13 years and growing stronger everday. i cant think of anyone eles i would want to spend the rest of my life. thank i dont have to worry about that, thank god. :gogirl: :kiss:
 
i met my boyfriend online. we got chattin on msn and we clicked after a few days, we had so much in common, 2 weeks later and we met up and things have just got better since then. we've been goin out just over 4 months now
 
Hmmm...join the club. Im 20, turning 21 in 6 months. I have never found a boyfriend, never lost my virginity, and damn right, im also interested in where to get one. They dont grow on trees you know.
Im not into the whole gay club thing, its not my piece of pie.
Where can you find another gay guy besides gay club scenes?
 
LOL @ this thread ... Ok, so taking is seriously: Try going to Gay-Lesbian social centers and events in your area , loook for Gay friendly churches or spiritual centers , hey... even in the produce aisle of the grocery ... YMCA or other gym ... just use your imagination as to where guys go and go there ... make a friend or two etc ..
 
I met mine when he sent me a wink on a popular site. I replied with a wink. He replied with a note. I replied with a note. Many notes and weeks later, we met. I was instantly smitten. He was several hours away and we met every few weeks and wrote each other everyday and IM'd every night for hours. I sold my house and moved in with him several months later. We are as happy and content with each other as any couple could possibly hope to ever be coming up on almost a year later. The magic electricity and fireworks are still bright and strong but even when that eventually does settle into the quite rhythm of comfort we will be together forever. I am grateful for every day with this most wonderful man of my dreams.
 
The key is not to go looking for a boyfriend, I think. Doing so makes people divide the human race into two categories - "potential boyfriend material" and "forget it". And they tend to throw a lot of valuable people into that "forget it" bin for less-than-ideal reasons: they're too short, too pudgy, not attractive enough, don't like dancing, into sports, whatever.

Instead, go looking for friends. Generic. Meet people - men and women. Meet them at volunteer places, at work, at concerts, at the grocery store, in class, online. Develop relationships with them. Don't be surprised to find that, perhaps, one of these friendships turns into something more. And even if one doesn't right away, you've made some new friends...and frankly, who COULDN'T use some new friends?

Lex
 
You can find your boyfriend everywhere, let's say. I met mine first on a plane. We were flying to Sweden and it happened that we had booking for seats which were just side by side. I was 19, he was 18 - and it was the merriest flight I've ever had :)
I was young and stupid though :]
 
Don't worry about it. It hasn't happened to me yet and I am 21, going on 22 this year. I think it takes planning and luck really. Good luck, buddy.
:cool:
 
I met my partner through one of my old jobs. He came in and I was on the register working. We talked while he was making his purchase and I didnt think anything would have come of it. A couple of days later though he saw me online and we chatted for hours. After that we've been together ever since.
 
I met my BF thru AOL steamy chat room of ChicagoM4M.. LOL

It was late.. we were only logged in to "hook up" and we starting IMing eachother. Been awesome since, and I'll never go on AOL again (was my first.. and last time)
 
I've been lucky in the fact that my boyfriends have all been my friends.

When I came out I was amazed to find that quite a few of them were *cough* curious.

Though I like the hunt, and being with someone, there's something to be said for being single.

Or that could just be me rationalising the fact that I'm alone. ;)
 
I met my BF via an online dating site.

I'd disagree with a number of posters here. Wait? For what? For someone to come knocking at your door and ask for your hand? Too good to be true. Trust me, if it is too good to be true, it isn't.

Dude, do not even consider doing that. The places are bursting with hott and highly qualified gay dating material (I am talking about the major metro areas). If you choose to sit back and wait, you'll grow old, disappointed and bitter.

This world belongs to the guys, who take their destiny in their own hands. This is your 'go and get them tiger world'.

Do not forget that ever. It is your life and you do things. You get yourself everyone and everything you need for your happiness.

They do not come to you.

You get them.

SC
 
thank you all guy.
you know, i not sitting at home wait for man knock my door.
then i also have many friends (male and female)
but they're just my friends, i have no any feeling of fall in love with anyone of them. no one can touch me, and I touch no one. we just always talk together, going together.

the gay society group that i found in my area, are very horny.(sex party, i not interest with it)
then last time i was waiting at a bus stop, a old fat man almost 50 years old come to ask me for my contact number...oh my god... i so scary because he take the bus with me and try to follow me go to my house. and then i tell him stop following me and then i leave the bus quickly take taxi going to home.

i'm only 18, 50 is too old for me, and then 50 years old uncle look like want to rape me.

oh~boring... just sharing my experience~~:P
 
go to gay clubs and if noone comes to you,you should go and dance with them.
just get mixed with the crowd.
you are young,there is no way that ppl wont talk to you in gay clubs!
good luck!
 
go with one of your friends to the gay clubs so no scary guy can follow you.!
 
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