How Are You?

[Roder51]

If I get any happier ....I'll bust!

 

[Geoffboyardee]

Ha. Thanks everyone for commenting and "letting yourselves go". Its really nice of you. I am happier but hey, keep on posting what makes you happy. Like, what your glad makes you, you.

For instance, I like my eyes. even though their a pretty boring brown, they look really pretty in the sun. Especially when you look close at them.
Hey, maybe that's how I'll be able to tell when I've meet the right guy, he'll tell me I have pretty eyes.

 

[altlover85]

but things seem to be going well with the only guy I'm dating right now, even if there's some weirdness (at least in my head) over the fact that we haven't spent the night together (we've messed around, but at the end of the night, either he turns down my offer for him to stay over my place, or he doesn't protest when I'm at his place and say that I should go)... but he invited me out with his friends this week and that seems like a step.

So he's okay with you being at his place, but not vice-versa?

 

[altlover85]

Things can be done about snoring. I once was with a great guy that had some serious snoring issues, but I would have been willing to work through that with him if he had been available for a relationship at the time. Instead it just stayed FWB and now we're just friends.

 

[altlover85]

^Believe me. I snore worse than any other snorer alive. I used to hook up exclusively with other snorers, and most of them were still kept up at night. I've yet to find anyone that snores louder than me. I don't even go on overnight trips with friends because I'm sick of hearing about it.

Right, but it's likely that there are still things you can do to abate it.

 

[mbamike]

I am doing good! My situation is slowly improving.

I just came back from the grocery store. So, I know I will eat, I have rent money for this month, and I have a prospect for a job. It is not a great job or one paying what I would like, the lady told me she thought I was over-qualified, but it is a job.

Also, I have started dieting. I hope to be able to wear my speedos this summer without my love handles. I am limiting myself to 1220 calories per day. I have an app on my phone to help me keep track of the calories I consume. I have lost seven pounds thus far. My goal is to lose 20 pounds. This will put my weight at 175 pounds with a BMI of 23.7. I feel good!

 

[altlover85]

Congrats on losing 7 pounds mbamike!

 

[altlover85]

I dunno. I'm not too sure if I want to classify myself as happy b/c there are still quite a few things concerning my life that I worry about. I'm still not satisfied with my physical appearance, my relationship with my dad is shaky and my personal life is non-existent. But compared to a few months ago, I'm feeling better. Conditions have improved and I'm not as anxious about the future as I once was.

School's great. It's been a lot of hard work but I'm happy with how I've managed to meet all of the demands my professors set forth. In May, I'll receive in my bachelor's in psychology so I'm super happy about that. I'm accomplishng a goal that even my own father wasn't able to do so that does bring a smile about my face.

Congrats on the almost finished BA!

 

[jcsjr85]

Let's see, after about a year of searching I finally found a job while not my first choice it's much, much better then nothing. I am becoming more comfortable being gay and even came out to my best who I consider the older brother I never had and he was perfectly fine with it (that was a major, MAJOR weight off my shoulders). Also still alive, my family is just fine, while things are not great they could be a shit load worse but all in all I am grateful.