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How big a deal is age?

I prefer men my age or older.

For 20 years I was a loving relationship with a man 19 years older than I. It's doubtful I would ever date someone 19 years younger than me but you never know. There's been many guys in their 20's and 30's hit on me in clubs.
 
I'm 22, my last boyfriend just turned 41. When I first met him, I remember thinking to myself: God I hope he's not creepy.

He turned out to be a fantastic person. We clicked in so many ways. We had a mutual broke up because I am busy with school and he has to do some soul searching. I think he's the only exception to my rule, I set my age limit to about 30-35 and younger.
 
My gfs have all been my age. My first/only/ex bf is 4 years older than me.

I never though of dating an older woman but I don't mind and older guy.. as long as (like said before) a generation gap doesn't alienate us from each other.. if we mesh it's all good
 
So there are other people on JUB who like guys their own age. I thought we weren't allowed to like guys our own age. We had to adhere to a huge generational gap, because "when you get older, you'll change your mind". If/when I get older I hope I will like guys my own age too! Not be a 50 yr old twink chaser. And if I am, at least I'll respect the preferences of most youth!
 
Well if I was the type of guy who just slept around age wouldn't matter at all. I'd sleep with any guy over 18 who was attractive. But since I am only interested in dating I am looking for guys close to my age for the main reason that I want to grow old with the person I'm with and I tend to just connect better with people around my age. We also share more of the same interests and we are usually in the same life stage. If I had to give a range 19-25 sounds about right. But once I am done with school and start working I don't think it will matter as much. The sad thing is most guys who are interested in me are usually 30 or over and the very few guys who are my age and are interested I don't find to be all that attractive with a few exceptions.
 
This is a great subject - and there is no "right"answer as it depends on the individual

Sexually it's all about attraction - and you either get turned on or you don't - with older or younger guys - so that's simple

From a relationship standpoint, IMO there needs to be some common ground - some connection - and a wide age difference CAN be a a barrier - but it doesn't have to be

The older party can be a "younger sole" and the younger party an "older sole" which can bridge the gap

Personally I am more sexually attracted to guys younger than me but that is changing a bit

I would recommend always following your instincts
 
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