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How can you tell if another guy likes you?

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Alright there is this guy at school (I'm a HS Senior) I've known him roughly since 9th grade but didnt become friends with him until 10th grade... And I've always though he was really cute but didnt pursue him because I had a g/f (I'm bi btw) and a virgin lol...but anyway he has always made like little passes at me and once even asked me if I had thought about being gay. I'm noticing I'm becoming more and more attracted to him..now I have no clue if he's gay/bi or whatever because he gets girls and he has a kid. But he's starting to secretly flirt with me more and more and I sometimes catch him staring at me and just does weird stuff and gives me funny looks.

The other day like I was in class doing my work he calls my name and says fuck u (middle finger) I just ignored him after that and I sent him a txt message calling him a bitch and lol he came over and horseplayed with me. The same day after classes were ending I was coming downstairs and me and my best friend and her brother were walking down the hallway in sort of arm-arm hug and he rolled his eyes at me out of annoyance I guess I dont. I've asked my best friends (girls) and they all think that hes gay...like I was telling one of my friends I was like I really like (name) a lot and she was like well I think he likes you too. Which of course got me excited but what does she know?

I know all this sounds quite juvenile and in fact it is but I dont really know what else to do because I really like him but if he's not gay I dont want to make a pass at him/come on to him and lose him as a friend,offend him,or embarass him, or get my ass kicked lol he's a big guy (tall and muscular:D ). If anyone could offer some advice I'd really appreciate it..by the way I'm not out at school so yeah...
 
I'm guessing he is at least interested. The funny thing is (and im saying this from my experiences though highschool was more than ten years ago for me) that people are a little more conservative in highschool than in college or after they have been to college. So there could be some presures that might keep him from acting on desires now that might not be there in the future. I think you can give him lots of opportunity to come on to you and maybe come on to him some. I'm guessing if he has a kid he doesnt have a problem going after what he wants. make it kinda clear you are interested...do that tummy scratch thing where you lift your t-shirt....and watch his eyes...if he starts drooling youl know he wants you...lol
 
do that tummy scratch thing where you lift your t-shirt....and watch his eyes...if he starts drooling youl know he wants you...
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is this a common tactic?

the reason i ask is that 2 friends of mine who i had a feeling might like me at different times did just as you described. and both times with both guys i wondered if they were doing it on purpose.

as to the original post here? just hang out with the guy more and more and see where it goes.
 
gotdimples77 said:
I think you can give him lots of opportunity to come on to you and maybe come on to him some. I'm guessing if he has a kid he doesnt have a problem going after what he wants. make it kinda clear you are interested...do that tummy scratch thing where you lift your t-shirt....and watch his eyes...if he starts drooling youl know he wants you...lol
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LOL haha thats too funny.
 
OMG, that tummy scratch thing! The one and only guy that I really lusted over did that to me and I looked and I made sure that he saw me looking. I think that happened a little before he told me that he was atracted to me!

Then again that was ages ago. I didn't know that was a code thing!
 
He has a kid. He must be straight, unless he donated his sperm to a bank. ok, there might be a slight probability hes bi. But do you actually want to be the guy who ruins his family because of a little gay sex? I would not be able to do that to a guy. Think about the consequences before you act.
 
haha family? He's the biggest sleezeball ever! I honestly wouldnt be surprised if he's slept with over 20 girls and he treats his baby's mother like crap :/ (not the baby though he really loves him) ..I mean really he's a whore but he's still gorgeous and he's got that whole macho personality that I like and if I didnt genuinely think he was into me I'd just drop it. I can look into his yes (hella corny) and realize he wants to tell me something..when he's nervous he always does this stupid laugh with this awful mesmerizing smirk and he does it only when he's around me.
 
Wow... Deja Vu lol, i went through this same kind of situation but he didnt have a kid... But at least this lad you like seems to show more interest in you than the lad i liked did.
And just because he has a kid doesnt mean he is straight, i am going to be a father in September and i am Bi.

I hope everything goes well for you mate and wish you the best of luck ..|

I cant really give you any advice because i guess i aint really that great at it lol, just take things steady and dont give up...
 
cellular said:
He has a kid. He must be straight, unless he donated his sperm to a bank. ok, there might be a slight probability hes bi. But do you actually want to be the guy who ruins his family because of a little gay sex? I would not be able to do that to a guy. Think about the consequences before you act.
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lol you know that doesent mean shit. See James McGreevey.
 
Jory said:
I have no idea
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haha neither do I but I like the tummy scratch idea its sort of reminiscent of a cheaply made gay porn movie.

I think were the attraction comes in at is that I have boyish features. Clear skin, little face hair, and I appear naive and passive. I dont know I've had some events happen were a guy I know from school said he wanted me to be the first guy he fucked cause he feels comfortable around me and that he didnt think that I would "tell"....I declined his offer because he's short and I dont like guys the same height as me but mostly cause he's unattractive.
 
From my experiences i say you tell him that your Bi one night when you guys are drunk. But NEVER tell him while in school, the reasons should be clear. From what you have said it is so clear that he likes you. MAKE THE MOVE!
 
Thats what my best friend said..she's like you need to sort of give out hints and give him opportunity to see if he responds but not around other people.
 
I'm in the same situation. I like this guy at school (college)...lately, we've become a lot closer in the past few months. With him, I get a "gay" vibe. He has a myspace, and it says that he's "straight". Most of my friends think he's gay and he's just not out. Another thing that makes me think he's gay is that we have this gay friend who tried to hook up with him--so obviously, he's getting the gay vibe too.

Anyways, I like him a lot, but I also can't tell if he's into me...it drives me crazy! We always hang out together (usually just the two of us or with a couple of other people). We're just always around each other.

I get confused with his signs because I can't tell if it's a "just friends" thing or an "I like you" thing. He'll ask me to go grab lunch or dinner with him.

Last night, we went to a concert with a few other people and they left, so it was just the two of us. Afterwards, we were bored so we just walked by the river and talked...is it just me, or is it a bit "romantic" for friends to do that?? We're supposed to hang out again tonight...

Ugh...I feel ya man!!
 
omg yes...it drives me nuts being around him and my hormones go beserk just by hearing his voice..I honestly dont want a relationship with him because thats definitely unlikely to happen...but if I could just get fucked by him once or even just kiss him on the lips..I just need something...I think even just knowing for sure whether he is really interested would be enough to satisfy me...and its hard because like I said earlier I dont want to offend him by overly flirting but if I dont make some type of a move soon he's probably to give up(if my suspicions are correct) and not be interested in me..its so annoying and I think about him everyday ..I've even prayed that it could stop...jeez.
 
lickya42000 said:
I'm in the same situation. I like this guy at school (college)...lately, we've become a lot closer in the past few months. With him, I get a "gay" vibe. He has a myspace, and it says that he's "straight". Most of my friends think he's gay and he's just not out. Another thing that makes me think he's gay is that we have this gay friend who tried to hook up with him--so obviously, he's getting the gay vibe too.

Anyways, I like him a lot, but I also can't tell if he's into me...it drives me crazy! We always hang out together (usually just the two of us or with a couple of other people). We're just always around each other.

I get confused with his signs because I can't tell if it's a "just friends" thing or an "I like you" thing. He'll ask me to go grab lunch or dinner with him.

Last night, we went to a concert with a few other people and they left, so it was just the two of us. Afterwards, we were bored so we just walked by the river and talked...is it just me, or is it a bit "romantic" for friends to do that?? We're supposed to hang out again tonight...

Ugh...I feel ya man!!
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Dude, if you're getting a vibe, you're getting a vibe, but let me just say that by themselves, going out to dinner with another guy (as long as it's not a candlelit dinner at some swanky restaurant) is a totally normal thing for two guys who aren't romantically interested in each other to do. So is walking along a river and talking, unless it's the river Seine and you guys are on a honeymoon trip to Paris or something. I have long chats with some of buddies (all straight), and sometimes we talk while walking around together or whatever, and there's nothing more to it.

I think it's an oddity (many would say defect) of North American culture that guys aren't allowed to socialize and talk and be close without the whole gay tension thing (usually imagined) coming up or being raised by other people. In a lot of more traditional cultures (e.g., southern Europe, the Middle East), men mostly socialize with other men, go out to dinner, etc., and then come home to their wives. I'm not saying you're reading too much into things, because only you can know. But I also wanted to point out that the thoughts you're having are in part a product of our culture. There are a lot more restrictions on what's considered "normal heterosexual" male behavior in N.A.
 
You: So ok... let's grow up and drop the shit, ok? Are you interested in me or not?

Him: Well, DUH, ya big lug, I thought I was gonna have to trip you down the stairs and give you mouth to mouth next.
 
Yes its easy for you to type that..but not so pratical to go up and say to a guy that you're not for sure is gay.
 
Just go up to him and touch his hair or something and see what he does. Or get one of your female friends to ask him how he feels about you.
 
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