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How can you tell if another guy likes you?

alas, my advice is still the best.

No guts, no glory, I'm afraid.

You're just going to have to grab that brass ring to find out what he's feeling. If he's straight, well.. you went for it. If he's not... well..
 
Give him heavy flirting and pursue him. Stop being so passive and waiting to see how he acts towards you. Ask him dirty questions, get touchy/feely, if you're alone with him - wrestle and grope him. There is so much you can do. And you can always ask him point blank.

But the guy has baggage. A kid.. bleh. It goes to show his life choices so far at such a young age.
 
This is never going to develop into a LTR but for there to be any prospect of you two having a sexual fling in the near future you have to stop the horseplay and texting bitch/middle-finger nonsense and start communicating about what you really think and feel. How can you expect to know another man if you continually mask reality with fear and apprehension?
 
I firmly agree eagle and also soil..It's just really difficult because of my environment..I dont intend nor expect a ltr however, if I could just be with him for one night I'd be satisfied...gosh he drives me nuts..I'll have to contemplate my future actions with this matter in the coming days. The most I'd want to do with him is a blowjob, taste his cum with no reciprocation because I'm not into anal whatsoever.
 
Since my last post we havent been talking much ..but the other day we're in computer class and I'm watching a vid on youtube of some guys on a tv show fighting..one of the guys has his shirt off...he's like "I bet you watch this show every week to see this guys chest"..I was like wtf?? I dont even like this show..I really dont though..and then he asks "How come you dont have a girl"...I didnt know what to say...so I acted as if I didnt hear him..I got so nervous...the same day I'm walking with my friends and he pulls me by my hood(I had on a hoodie) aggressively and asks if we're still friends..I said yea, sure why wouldnt we be...later that day he walks past my locker and I rolled my eyes at him in annoyance..he's half way out the door and says "dont ever roll your eyes at me again"...I was like ok..its seems like he would have said "dont roll your eyes"..cause thats gurly..I dunno...so much confusion lol....Btw I've been catching him staring at me a lot too.
 
you say he has the machismo and attitude...let's say he is totally str8 with no interest in you, doubtful at this point btw based on your thread, then he'll be totally happy that you show interest in him. it will be a huge boost to his ego...he's so hot/manly/sexy he can even get gay guys sorta thing...I see it all the time in str8 guys. so really, you don't have much to lose in this instance. so I agree with soilwork. machismo needs to be reciprocated with machismo. walk up to him when no one is around, grab his balls and tell him "i'd love to have my mouth on these". he's probably so full of hormones, as long as he gets his rocks off he probably doesn't care with who. and clearly he is interested at the very least in some sort of "what's the hype over this gay thing anyway?" for all you know he's drooling over all the "str8" corbin fisher models thinking "i could totally do that." and i congratulate you on having your head on straight, realizing this will be nothing more then a sexual fuk fest. a lot of people(guys and girls) fall head over heels thinking they can change other people into the LTR types. i'm glad you aren't doing that!
 
you say he has the machismo and attitude...let's say he is totally str8 with no interest in you, doubtful at this point btw based on your thread, then he'll be totally happy that you show interest in him. it will be a huge boost to his ego...he's so hot/manly/sexy he can even get gay guys sorta thing...I see it all the time in str8 guys. so really, you don't have much to lose in this instance. so I agree with soilwork. machismo needs to be reciprocated with machismo. walk up to him when no one is around, grab his balls and tell him "i'd love to have my mouth on these". he's probably so full of hormones, as long as he gets his rocks off he probably doesn't care with who. and clearly he is interested at the very least in some sort of "what's the hype over this gay thing anyway?" for all you know he's drooling over all the "str8" corbin fisher models thinking "i could totally do that." and i congratulate you on having your head on straight, realizing this will be nothing more then a sexual fuk fest. a lot of people(guys and girls) fall head over heels thinking they can change other people into the LTR types. i'm glad you aren't doing that!
lmao thats the best one I've ever heard..lol I thought about doing something like that..but havent gotten a chance to be alone with him yet...lol The other day he comes over to my table in class and says something like "How come you dont look out for me anymore"? (Do favors) and makes a notion to his crotch ..but it just looked like he was fixing his clothes..I dont know..this guy is such a mystery ..I love him..no I'm not in love with him..I just totally want to suck him off...if it never happens I'll live certainly..but I want it to..I'm trying to take steps slowly but I feel like I'm going too slow. He's invited me over to his house to drink ..which I dont drink..but still I wanted to go ..but I had conflicting schedules..this weekend he wanted to hang with me and my best girlfriend but it never happend because the movie we went to see stayed on until like 1am..by that time he was doing something else probably with some trick lol :/
 
lol, i suggested that cuz it worked once. it will happen suddenly and without warning. all of a sudden the light bulb goes on and u just act like on an instinctual level. i didn't even think about it, i just did it. totally amazed myself and the dude. it could have also backfired in my face and i've never tried it again to this day, but damn it was the right thing to say at the right time, and you will eventually have that moment too I'm sure of it. you seem very sure of urself as a gay man, so you will know what to do. remember one of the best things about being gay is that as a man, we often(clearly not always lol) know exactly what other men want. so it's all good. good luck and keep us updated!!! we all want to hear the dirty sweatly details of the blowjob in the locker room.
 
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