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how can you tell if someone is gay or not

my200sx

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I am Bi,and have not yet come out to anyone but i was just wondering how could i tell if someone is gay or not,there is so many cute guys were i live and i find my self so attracted to them but i cant tell if they are straight or not some really dont seem like it but i am really nervous on the fact of asking the strange question,because i would basically be coming out to them,and im not ready for that,and i find myself staring at them for periods of time so they probly know im attracted to them but i just dont know can anyone help me buy lending some advice,THANKs:confused:
 
Use your Gaydar radar...follow your instincts and the saying "it takes one to know one" is true...have fun...
 
How to find out well, just invite them over to your room and lock the door :P
 
Watch if he checks out other guys or buddy flirt with him and see if he takes it seriously.
 
I just ask them, lol. I'm forward like that though, can't be bothered beating about the bush anymore.

- Danny xx
 
my200sx said:
I am Bi,and have not yet come out to anyone but i was just wondering how could i tell if someone is gay or not
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Ask them simple.

Or grab their penis and depending on their reaction you will know.

januaryguy said:
Use your Gaydar radar...follow your instincts and the saying "it takes one to know one" is true...have fun...
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He is bisexual #-o so he would not possess gaydar.
 
People's Gaydar is not always reliable. Since you're new at this, you don't know how reliable yours is.

Sometimes getting into a discussion about fairly neutral things can give you some hints. For example, you might talk about movies and ask him what he thought of "Brokeback Mountain."

If he's straight, telling him you think he's handsome might freak him out. But you might ask him where he got that jacket, or shirt, or shoes, and see if he enjoys talking about clothes. Or ask him if he knows any good places to hang out. Or ask him if he happens to know Sam Glotz (who you suspect is gay). If you talk long enough, he might drop a hint.

The above techniques do not guarantee anything. But they can't hurt.

(!)
 
Gay or straight, if someone's interested in you, then you should be able to tell by looking at what their eyes are doing. If they're making a lot of eye contact, or sizing you up, then they're interested, and if they're not doing this, then they're not interested (and their orientation doesn't really matter at that point).

Also, you should kinda be able to tell after one conversation with an out gay guy, but guys who have girlfriends and sleep with men every once in a while might be more difficult, though when someone's into you they do all that nervous flirty stuff (again, the eyes . . .).
 
This coming from another bisexual, just ask them. I mean really. I wouldn't hurt, but if not the context clues like body language towards males compared to females is a dead give-a-way. Most bisexual men I've met are very masculine, so I know by the body language test.
 
I'm also bi, and I know that some 'straight acting' friends are both straight AND bi, and some 'gay acting' friends are both bi AND straight. (Don't have any openly gay friends...)

So all I can say is you have to inquire, as most non-open guys won't give it away easily.

I would avoid the "are you gay?" question, as you probably wouldn't get the best response.

Maybe something to the effect of both of you seeing a hot guy on tv or in an ad and saying "fuck I bet you'd want to make out with that guy, wouldn't you?" in a joking way and seeing how he responds.

Bottom line is if the guy is not openly gay or bi you're probably going to have to make the first move. You're going to have to grow some balls the size of grapefruits and get over it.

If it's a stranger you're interested in I do like the suggestions about looking at him and seeing how he responds. The 'ol 'up and down' and 'extended gaze' would probably give you a good clue, at least in my experiences.
 
my200sx said:
I am Bi,and have not yet come out to anyone but i was just wondering how could i tell if someone is gay or not,there is so many cute guys were i live and i find my self so attracted to them but i cant tell if they are straight or not some really dont seem like it but i am really nervous on the fact of asking the strange question,because i would basically be coming out to them,and im not ready for that,and i find myself staring at them for periods of time so they probly know im attracted to them but i just dont know can anyone help me buy lending some advice,THANKs:confused:
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i am in the same place as u this guy at work keeps staring at me and my "gaydar" keeps going off but i have emailed this guy and just ask do u want to hang out but he will not email me back but i see us both looking at guys who we think are cute i even sat buy him (telecommunication) for the past 2 days but he will not say anything any suggestions guys shat shoould I do???
 
I have a question. I'm Bi and oneday I was watching porn with my straight chubby friend (which I love chubby guys). we got excited and hot, so we started jerking off. he then offered to rub my cock for me, and let him do it without any hesitation. then I cum on his hand. he was all happy, but he never talks about it. another time , when he was all playing with his underwear cock while watching porn (he loves watching porn that have a story to it) I offered to rub his cock, but he refused. I was wondering since then if he is Bi or what !! but cannot admit it since he's a married man or whenever he get the chance he fools around. He once offered me to go on a trip with him, but I couldn't at that time.
 
yo guys, theres plenty of gay guys out here...leave the bi's and str8's alone...a big waste of time.
 
I am bi and I will tell you one thing. Body laguage is always important. Every bi man I've met always slips up some way or another( the closeted ones). Just keep your eyes open and trust your instincts.
 
i seriously doubt that there's such a thing as gaydar! I mean, the preditor look from a guy would give away if he's preying on you. Also some guys are overly friendly cuz they're eager to be your friends. Unless I haven't mastered how to seduce a straight guy, hehe.
 
My favorite type of straight man is the one that will let you blow him, or jerk him off once and only once and afterwards for the rest of the friendship pretend like it never ever happened. Luv it especially if they are currently dating a girl. Or have a child later on.
 
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